What do young guys look for/notice before getting to know a girl?

[Anonymous]

I'm looking to grab the attention of some guys at school, although I am unsure how to do so. Does anyone have tips on how to stand out and maintain interest?

[ohsheeT]

You just need to be yourself be happy be energetic smile and pay attention to the guys that do approach you

. At your age in this moment of time guys are only thinking of one thing and that is to get in your pants and put that little notch on their belt buckle today had slept with you and you got to be careful of that too because even if they don't sleep with you some will spread rumors that they took you out and that's what happened so you got to really be careful.

And who are the guys friends because if this guy is that type of person as soon as he's gone which would be a matter of days one of his other friends will approach you and that's how you get reputations
Just be happy be smart and remember one thing no matter what you are the boss of your body nobody else whether it's tomorrow the next day or the next day or a year from now if you're going to have sex with a guy and he tries to talk you into not having or wearing a condom do not do it a guy that does that does not like you he does not love you because otherwise you protecting you so always remember that you are the boss of your body 24 hours a day

[hahahmm]

Assuming you want a higher quality guy and not just any random male or desperate male: Be feminine. Don't be masculine. Dress feminine but without looking like you are desperate for attention or desperate for people to look at your skin.

Good feminine traits (from the male POV): able to be confident/comfortable talking to males. not seeming afraid. Being friendly but NOT more friendly with one guy than any other guy UNLESS you actually want the guy. The most attractive females I ever knew had mastered the art of being friendly to 100% of guys without coming across as even trying to flirt or be 'sexy' about it. But it's very rare to find this kind of female. They could get almost any guy they wanted too. Although they also tended to NOT want tons of guys. Unlike the females who put all their energy into looking good, and zero into having an attractive personality.

Helps if you have thought about what you want from a guy that has nothing to do with the physical. And it helps if you have thought about how you want to be treated. The females who just let guys do whatever they want and treat them however they want don't end up with much in life or are always abused, in my opinion.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Form fitting outfits and more cleavage. However to keep their attention you need to learn and have an opinion that’s more than just regurgitated dribble. So get an education and become your own person. That’s more attractive than a dumb slut. Remember beauty fade but dumb is forever.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Feel free to DM me if you’d like to talk 😊

[Taniisokay]

Girl focus on your study. That's my sincere tips to you.

[Makeushiver]

Well You probably know the basics. Dress so that you maximize those points you consider attractive. I know- mostly from being told by women I admire- that my eyes are a color that is a bit fascinating so I try to accessorize with items that also show that color. Since I'm athletically slender I need to go out of my way to find clothes that flatter my body type. I try to maintain independence from any type of clique. I have interests that people find interesting, very well traveled, a good sense of humor.

Characteristics of women that I find immediately attractive is someone who is a bit unconventional, isn't overly "girly". Not a fan of the color pink, frills etc. but do like understated elegance esp. in things like lingerie. ( La Perla). Someone who is confident but not vocally opinionated. Intelligence is a huge factor for me when finding attractive characteristics in a woman. Someone capable of articulating what they believe in. A level of confidence and not a great deal of neediness.

Good luck with your endeavor.

[Anonymous]

Her behavior and this should go for anybody, if someone is acting one way around you, but another around other people it could mean they’re being fake. It just depends on what the difference is like obviously if you like somebody you’re going to change a little bit since you see them differently.

But let’s say someone’s a party animal around friends but around you they pretend to be sweet and innocent that right there is a huge red flag they’re pretending to be someone they’re not.

Also, who someone hangs out with is important. If all their friends are cheaters, players, whores, or just bad people then you can expect that that person is probably that way too otherwise that person probably wouldn’t be hanging with them consistently. If it’s somebody they barely talk to or just say hi to maybe that’s different.

Overly defensive…. People who are overly defensive most of the time have them most to hide. Let’s say she’s acting disgusted by men who sleep around but all the sudden the word “whore” is offensive. That’s weird because if she isn’t one she shouldn’t be offended by it. Maybe if it’s just the fact that it’s vulgar but it depends on the type of defensiveness.

The same for a dude like if he’s saying all women are whores but defending men who sleep with them it’s super weird.

If someone seems too much like they’re hiding something then it’s probably better to just move on and not be dragged in the middle of it.

[GallopAcrossEurope]

Here's the fun part: they're most likely not looking for very much, considering at this age most guys are still awkward with girls or never even talked to one they don't know. Just you talking to him would probably get them all excited, then maybe sharing some similar experiences (like camping, maybe you like the same sport, etc.) would be a solid start.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

A tormenting question, I recall and sympathize, it has been asked recently by a user in your age range, take a look, there are some tips: How to talk to a guy as a very introverted person?

[Anonymous]

Honestly. Mainly looks. If she doesn’t have the looks he’s looking for chances are she will never get to show him what a great person she is through her personality. There’s a lot of great people out there who have great personalities but they will never get the chance to shine because people don’t see them as good looming.

[The_Confusion]

Her height. Try high heels large enough to look 6 feet or taller.

Money. Make sure everyone knows that you make 6 figures.

I forgot what else was on the list.

[MyBrainsInsaneReign]

Not trying to be rude or gross, but younger guys are shallow a**holes. I say that as a member of the younger guy community.

Younger guys mostly just care about how hot a girl is. So if you want a younger guy to notice you, dress to emphasize how hot you are.

That doesn't mean show as much skin as possible, but if your body looks good, don't hide it loose, baggy clothes.

[MicahRaine]

Just be genuine and nice. The right guy will respect you and be attracted to you.

[DishLady]

Depends on the guy -- see what @clampfan101 said...

[clampfan101]

Thank you.

[supercutebutt]

It's usually about the butt. Do you have a pert posterior?

[clampfan101]

What they look for heavily depends on the guy.
If what’s noticed first can even be assumed, same as the first question.

[Nikki1989]

Most men are immature at that age, so it is all about looks, usually.

[thearchjoker]

could be many things, personality, appearance, hobbies, body language, or just a pair of huge you know whats.

[Surferboi_02]

I'd say looks popularity status, they look for what girls get the most attention from guys, and style like short clothing.

[Wise4myage]

Smile and make eye contact, and don’t forget to say hi.😊

[laly520]

focus on studying
u still have time for that...

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

sounds like a party breaker here 😆

[Staximus]

Umm... Walk up to them and start talking.

[Cheerfull009]

Personality, way of talking,

[Ladsin2]

Her looks.

[nawtee_me]

Her smile