How do you talk to someone who asked for your number but you internally feel unattractive and shy and like you aren’t worth much?

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I’m so shy and quiet I don't know why he likes me

My coworker asked for my number recently. He texted me he was like ‘why were you so shocked when I asked for your number? Your mouth dropped and everything ‘ lol!!! How dorky of me. I was shocked cause I almost never get asked out or asked for my number and I was surprised.

He’s actually someone I’m physically attracted to. Like I realized that months ago. I thought he was just a flirty guy esp since he’s attractive he probably flirts with many girls and doesn’t want any of them.

So yeah it was surprising lol

I’m also really shy and quiet. Like I don't know what he would see in me. Yes I know I have a vagina ok I get it. I’m still confused.

Soo yeah.

_Maya_ · Accepted Answer

Ah yes, yet another account. This time you are shy? Got it. Well there isn't anything you can do about that. That is who you are. As for why someone like him likes a shy girl... that's like asking someone why they like a guy with brown hair. You like what you like and evidently you are his type. Ever think of that? Is he not allowed to like the shy and quiet type? Maybe that is what he prefers. I guess my biggest question is why worry about it? You like him and he likes you. I fail to see the issue other than he is a coworker and as I've mentioned to you in the past that is a bad idea. You don't get the hint. Do whatever you want but why worry about a problem that doesn't exist?

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

So here’s the thing I would try for a date and see how you feel. It’s okay to express your feelings as well with him on how you feel. All in all either it will work out or you can part as friends.

jahaims · Accepted Answer

Work on your insecurities prior to entering a relationship or it will just be an unhealthy relationship

EnjoytheDay777 · Answer

I saw something special in you :)

Maybeyoutoo · Answer

Just have sex that's all

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