Why do I few more and more emotionally interested and attached to my coworker that likes me, the more he touches my lower back?

[Tuggerbugg]

Guy that likes me at work always touches my lower back why?

it’s funny cuz it makes me feel like I wanna be near him more often

[slatyb]

I find that sort of touch rather inappropriate. Why don't you invite him to coffee or lunch? He obviously likes you. Is he single?

[Tuggerbugg]

He has my number. Yes he’s single. He asked me if I was single before asking for my number. I figured if he wants to hang out or date he will contact me.

[spartan55]

It's funny because WHY would he do that when is a married man? Seems inappropriate and sketchy.

[PeachyPie93]

No idea, I don't touch people I am not dating or seriously close friends with lol

[Tuggerbugg]

Yeah. I like to be touched so it’s really making me feel like I’m his girl or something but we barely know each other lmao

[PeachyPie93]

He could be just a touchy person. But I guess if you like it you like it, just make sure he isn't married.

[Tuggerbugg]

He’s single. He asked ifn I was single then I asked him and he then asked for my number. That was last week.

[Nikki1989]

It is not a big deal. Lots of guys do that.

[Tuggerbugg]

Oh okay. It’s unusual they do it to me. He does it a lot now. I just feel closer to him because of it.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Why? Because attraction.

[Tuggerbugg]

I definitely wanna get close with him lol but we hardly know each other

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Then it's REALLY time to know each other, which means talking 😅

[Tuggerbugg]

What do we talk about? I get clammed up and shy

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Well, I've seen someone here suggesting safe roleplay casual interactions to kickstart people too shy, so if you wanna try this approach in DM, that could be productive?

[Tuggerbugg]

You wanna fuck in dm?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

LOL?
I said safe roleplay casual interactions, there is no sex here xD

[Tuggerbugg]

Ok how would it begin?

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Not very practical to do it here on this page, but I suppose it can be of public interest 🤔 So, yes okay
Give me a brief description of the workplace and the guy's personality, I'll try to work with these infos

[Maybeyoutoo]

It's ridiculous. You're not married.✝️

[Tuggerbugg]

If he keeps it up we might end up married

[spartan55]

Ha, yeah I'm sure.