What would you call this type of bond. Would you say they friends still? What do you think?

[Anonymous]

When your friends with a man and you both have feelings for each other, y'all never went out. You guys made plans but it never end up happening. Yet y'all have done things that couples do like sitting on his lap and him holding you in his arms while doing it. Or y'all grabbing each others butts and him claiming your butt is his. And picking you up to and from work, buying you food almost everyday and cooking for you , making sure you eat good. What would you call this type of bond. Would you say they friends still?

[JSkye]

Seems really blurry to me?

It's friends if you say it is, just make sure that he sees it the same way. If he doesn't, then it is not.

Just be careful not to lead him on. Speaking from experience, that can wreck a good friendship if he is seeing it as something else and you don't realize it.

[Asker]

As I mentioned before we BOTH have feelings. Mine are stronger because I'm actually in love with him. Don't assume anything please.

[JSkye]

I didn't say that either of you did or didn't have feelings. I was saying that if your intention is to keep him as a friend, make sure he knows that is your intention. If your intention is to acknowledge the feelings and move from there beyond friendship, then let that be known as your intention.
All I said is be on the same page, and you will know if you are just friends or more. Should be pretty obvious what it is at that point.
Please don't accuse me of making assumptions when I did not.

[Asker]

Umm he already knows, I'm the one that's been waiting for him to become ready.

[JSkye]

Ah, got it. So, it sounds like friends then. Or, depending on circumstances making him wait, pending couple

[Asker]

What do you mean making him wait?

[Asker]

Well when you said let that be known what my intentions are, this is what I meant by assuming because I never said that I didn't. We already talked about that and I made it CLEAR to him. I'm the one waiting on him to become "ready and healed".

[Jennz6]

If I was sitting in his lap and he was saying my butt was his, and everything else you mentioned. I would think that we’re more than just friends 💕

[Asker]

Well he didn't say me he grabbed my butt and said that he enjoyed his buns.

[Jennz6]

@Sheye26💕
Thank you for the MHO

[ProbablyClueless]

That's definitely not a friendship.

That sounds like "relationship lite" for people with boundary issues.

[Nirmroth]

Why make it so complicated?

[Asker]

😂😂😂

[Likes2drive]

A friend that is also your companion works out well and that’s what it seems like what you have

[DrPepper12]

Friends dancing around a possible escalation to more.

[eagle1951]

botfriend girlfriend

[beefcakebradybatson]

James Bond?