Is it normal to talk to a guy friend everyday being that you’ve only known for a few months?

[Anonymous]

some of our conversation is suggestive, but not sexual. We exchanged pictures and videos of ourselves. Most times we talk about gaming, work and food. We always game together. And after gaming we text all night. We’ve been talking every day since he gave me his number about a month ago. However after seeing his ig today i saw that he has a girlfriend? Or at least there’s pictures from last year and he never once brought her up to me. Thoughts?

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Pls help ❤️🥹

[teamvic]

Hmmm well if he's single and those are old pictures

One or both of you guys like eachother. Although you claim you don't so it might be him🤔

And if he's In a relationship, he STILL may like you. I mean you said you guys are BOTH being suggestive. So likee unless I don't know what that means you're kinda giving " incorrect" signs for him to keep investing time if you don't feel anything towards him🤔

Also if he is indeed in a relationship. You may be unintentionally helping him," cheat" I know it's not actually cheating but put yourself in his girls shoes, hypothetically if he has one

How would you feel if you found out your boyfriend has been texting and talking as often and how you guys talk to eachother at time and I didn't even mention the amount of time with eachother

I know I'd be heated and I'd probably leave his ass🤔

So all In all, if you don't feel nothing towards him, you may need to start shutting down him down whenever he starts to get," suggestive" because you may be leading him on

It's very rare for two people of the opposite gender to talk and be around eachother and spend as much time as you may be and BOTH parties not having any feelings. Maybe one yes. But both. It's uncommon. Because one always falls for the other

That's why people say guys and girls can't be just friends

Thank you for listening to my Ted Ed talk

[Asker]

I guess the situation is a little more complicated than I originally explained. I do like him. This was before I knew he had a girlfriend. Coincidentally, today he causally mentioned his girlfriend in conversation and I pretended to be surprised. I mentioned that “that’s sad to learn because I thought you were cute”. Well this evening, we were gaming in a group, and after gaming he texted me that he had to do homework tomorrow and that he’d be gaming later on. I responded calling him a nerd and he said “well you called this nerd cute”. Now he’s texting asking if I have a crush on him…. so I don't know what to think.

[Asker]

Never mind, I got my answer. We ended up sexting and he asked for pictures of my v*gina 😭

[teamvic]

Bro you're insane😵‍💫

But as I said. I told you it's rare for them to be just friends haha

[Asker]

I didn’t mean for it to go there he just started talking about it and I got turned on and went with it omg. I didn’t send him pictures tho just said some bad things😭😭😭 Just proved ur point to be right 😭😭😭

[teamvic]

I tried to tell you ma'am

I dont be guessing I be telling what I know and have seen haha

But I will leave you off with one final line of advice. I'm sure you already know helping someone cheat, in anyway, is bad. But I'm not here to scold you so it's not my problem, but I will say. What ever you do. DO not Date him now. Because if he was willing to do this to his girlfriend behind her back. Do you honestly think he'll change his ways once he's with you?🤔

And thats all I've got to say about thatt🤔😌

[the29thhuman]

🚩 run girl

[Asker]

we are only friends that game together. Even if he was single I wouldn’t want to date him. I guess I was wondering given the circumstances, is the fact that he texts me everyday weird? And why wouldn’t he ever mention his girlfriend. I’ve known him since like April.

[the29thhuman]

All very fair points.
It’s likely they are rocky and he talks to u as an outlet.
Yes it is weird