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I have a friend that thinks I should only see, date or speak to one guy at a time because what if another seen us in public or what if he somehow knows someone else that’s talking to me etc
but on the other hand getting to know others helps me not get too overly emotionally invested in the situation with one particular guy, it helps limit the disappointment if they find somewhere else or lose interest
I don't think dating should be limited until you get into a relationship that's defined as monogamous. I feel the same way as your second statement when I'm dating.
Dating is a meat grinder, and often if I date 3 women at a time, I'll find that one wants a ONS, and 2 are really uninterested and killing time. So cycle out, cycle out, find people worth putting time into because they'll do the same for me.
But yeah, until you're actually in a relationship, and it is monogamous, play the field, otherwise you're limiting yourself for no reason at all. Conversely once you get with someone worth your time, who treats you right, cut everyone else off.
I understand the argument for both, but the one in favor for seeing multiple people sounds more like you're being intentionally spiteful. You're approaching it with; "He will dump me, so when he eventually does I can tell him to fuck off to his side chick because I already have another dick to bounce on."
Ultimately, you do you. If you believe in showing some sort of respect towards the other person while the two of you are dating or if you believe that you two are not exclusive. It's all up to you.
It's to do with what you want personally. I'm naturally a person who only focuses on one guy as soon as I get a sense we may turn into something. But, if you want to see others and he hasn't made anything exclusive, then that's fine and it's your decision not your friends.
I think definitely talk to multiple guys but be honest with them about talking to other guys.
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The problem with dating multiple guys at a time is you would like someone hair , you could like someone else's face and body and someones courage and character.
It would make it tough to choose and you might end up selecting wrong guy..
Although if i see from my perspective if the girl dating me is seeing someone else at same time for me it would mean she is not that into me so i would also loose interest.
Because i would like to be the girls first choice and not an option honestly
I would be cautious not to get caught on a date with another guy, but until you’re “dating” (multiple dates in) and getting more personal, I don’t think there is any obligation to exclusively.
Until you are in a relationship/have the "what are we" conversation, it is perfectly acceptable for you to talk with other men.
Just lead them on and drop the guy you're not interested in.
You're free to see anyone at anytime until you have an exclusivity conversation with someone.
Are you hooking up with either of these dudes?
one at a time is much more honest it's not a good habit to be in to date around
That's totally up to you and I think it also depends on how much you liked the date.
Until ur exclusive, yes
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