Why my ex still ignores me after 2 months?

[Miss1993]

Me and my ex have been together for about 1 month a a week. I know it wasn't that long, but it was a great relationship and he was the one who chased me like crazy.

After a month and 1 week, he called it over and he didn't really give me a reason. He said that we could still be friends, but I know that's what we say after a breakup. For the next few days, we were okay, we still talked to each other like friends like '' hello, sup ? '' and stuff like that. After these days went by, he started to ignore me :( ...

Obviously, I didn't do anything because I didn't want to appear desperate. Then, a month went by, he still ignored me. Then Christmas vacation arrived, he hasn't even called me to say merry Christmas or anything...

But still, he ignores me. I wanted to make him kinda jealous, .. his friend came out to me and asked me if I was seeing someone else. I said '' yeah ''.. but It wasn't true. I don't know why I said that..

Anyway, my question is, why my ex still ignore me after 2 months ? should I move on or hold on ? could you guys give me reasons why an ex would still ignore you after 2 months ?.. I still love him, :( ...

[Regularguy]

I hate to be the bearer of bad news but it sounds like he's over you. My reasons for ignoring or removing an ex from my life is simple, I no longer want them as a part of my life nor do I want to be a part of their life. I really really suggest you not hold on. It's been two months.

[Miss1993]

Okay, I know what you mean , and your right. But I haven't mentioned the fact that one time on IM , I told him that I was happy for him to let me go and that I wasn't sad about it. I also told him that I was wating for the moment for him to leave me because I did not want to breakup, but I wanted him to do it for me. I also said '' I'm not saying this becasue I wanna makeup or anything, because I DONT. ''

Does that have anything to do about it ?

[Regularguy]

That opens up another can of worms right there. It sounds like there's a deeper issue at heart here. You not wanting to break up with him and waiting for him to leave you tells me you don't have the heart to leave him yet you are not happy with him. Have you been abandon before? By parents or perhaps an ex? And what you are doing is reenacting it? He might just think you are too much for him in that you don't know what you want