Why do men treat me like i'm another man once they hear I'm a lesbian?

[LillyRedrose]

Its like they forget I'm a woman.

[RavVid]

I've had a couple of lesbian friends and it was pretty much like walking down the street with another guy. Their head would swivel and mine would automatically follow. Really cool to go perving with a girl. It was an extra sauce.

The commonality of us both liking female bodies puts it into a different field of discourse with the non verbals being the same as with another man. I can go anywhere in the world and say "women huh" with perfect clarity to another man with out us having a single word in common.

Is that what you mean by being treated as a man or is it something else like letting you open the door? I might not be getting the sense of what you are saying right.

[FunkyMonkee]

How do you know that's what they're doing? If you were available, sexually/romantically, they'd hit on you like any other available woman. As you're not, there's just no point in all the niceties they'd afford to an available woman. Does that mean they're treating you like a guy? How often do they get naked in front of you or whip out their dick for a joke even if you're in the room? Do they punch you in the shoulder after a joke? When they spot a woman they'd like to fuck, do they ask your opinion on her, too as if you were a guy? When they go to the bathroom, as a gang, do they invite you in?

[lisafkit79]

They can't date you , flirt with you so they fell you as man. Man treat other genders same if they can't date them

[Jennz6]

I know what you mean but the men I know still want to fuck me.

[Jennz6]

@LillyRedrose 🥰💕
DM me sweetheart 💃

[RedInnocent69]

100%! I still want to fuck a few of my lesbian friends.

[Jennz6]

@RedInnocent69 cool 🆒

[MisterWack]

Because you are off their market of dating?

Other than that I can’t say because I view all people as the same whether straight, lesbian, queer, bisexual, asexual, intersexual, etc.

[thearchjoker]

Admittedly i do kinda do it subconsciously. I guess its because we have both a more similar shared experience when it comes to women and the fact that i don't need to impress you as a potential romantic partner meaning its easier to be free and treat you in a similar way i would treat a male freind.

[Anonymous]

Well you are neither a potential sexual partner or blood relative so they treat you like an equal.

I have a friend who is a lesbian but uses her womanly whiles to manipulate guys into doing her favours. For instance she needed a ride to her parents place which was a 18 hour drive before Thanksgiving. She had no car & no money. For this favour she let me f*ck her 3 times. I've on occasion been allowed to jerk off to her topless and a girlfriend of hers on one occasion. Been given bjs etc. I put her up for 2 weeks after she dropped out of college, in exchange she let me f*ck her every night. She's very honest about it, for a guy like me pumping her for about 3-5 minutes she gets exactly what she wants, like that time I left her to her folks for Thanksgiving I was going through a super long dry spell and in total we probably had about 5 minutes of sex at most those 3 times we did it.

[razelove]

Isn't there equality? If you're off the market sexually, and you get with other women, what reason is there to treat you as anything other than one of the guys?

I wouldn't want to be friends with you if you expect me to walk on eggshells around you and treat you differently. If you make it clear we aren't going to have sex and there is zero chance, cool. What else is there to do other than say how you're doing and complain about the old lady? Maybe talk about fishing if you're into it.

[DrPepper12]

Cuz their misogynistic bigoted mean close-minded repressed myopic homosexual hating twatwaffles.

I can't imagine how that feels and I'm sorry. It's REALLY a dick move. They never got turned on to MCR!

[Datboi65]

Would you rather they pursue you and show interest in you then? What kind of weird question is that? If a man isn't going after you, he's not "treating you like a man" he's just being platonic.

[Joshydavid25]

Maybe they just assume that that's the way you'd rather be treated.. Especially depending on how you look..

[Anonymous]

I think it usually starts after you start talking about girls together. And they aren't trying to have Intercourse with you so it's a different kind of respect

[Finchie40]

Because they can’t date you , so they treat you like one of the guys’

[Berethor]

Didn't it what you want? if they would be attracted to you wouldn't you complain about that?

[Titus_of_Ultramar]

Because lesbians are more chill than women they tend to be more fun to hand around with and can joke without getting easily offended.

[paledreams]

Perhaps some women want to be butch aka manly as opposed to feminine

[ProbablyClueless]

For a lot of guys, that's kind of how they see Lesbians; just another man.

[RedInnocent69]

It’s not necessarily a bad thing. They think they can relate to you over other girls.

[OddBeMe]

I can see that. Thats unfort. But as a married guy for 20 years i prob treat everyone plutonically.

[Ms_Facesitter]

How do they treat you? What changes?

[LillyRedrose]

i don't know how to define it but just like i'm one of the boys

[Ms_Facesitter]

So basically friend zoned then. If you're lesbian, you're at the same standing as the boys. Nothing wrong with that. You're being treated like a friend, not a man

[Avicenna]

All men you know do that?

[LillyRedrose]

Not all but a lot do

[Avicenna]

Makes no sense to me

[Anonymous]

Because women are meant to be flucked. And you don’t like panis so 🤷‍♂️

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

How do they treat another man?

[demonics]

*Discovers female privilege*

[Anonymous]

Cause they can’t have you

[Dongie]

Do you want to sleep with them?

[jahaims]

Because you aren't going to fuck them

[noohair]

Because you are unavailable to them.

[In_Trance]

Why is this a talking point?

[LazerMan]

It is because you like woman

[Anonymous]

I thought you women wanted equality.