How do you deal with being the fool In Almost every social interaction?

[Hatefulggg]

• Men at my jobs bully or have bullied me. I’m nice and quiet and shy. I don’t pick on people not even as a joke. I know how it feels.
  
  
• Women coworkers past and present tend to be either fake nice to my face and are actually racist behind my back or just two faced, or they’re jus lowkey fake and nasty people with no manners towards me. Whether it’s always personal or they’re just assholes at this point doesn’t matter because it’s just more sand on the hill and the hill gets bigger and bigger.
  
  
• men repeatedly have made me to play the fool entirely. Because I’m socially unaware, inexperienced, etc whatever you wanna blame, I routinely play the fool with men no matter if it’s just coworkers who flirt or guys who date me or etc.
• im very angry and my solution is not be around human beings right now.
  
  

[bowenw]

That is a lot to deal with. I think you continue to learn from your past so you can know when people are not treating you with respect. Continue to be aware that there are some evil people out there who like to bully. Avoid them and try to find people that treat you respectfully.

[Hatefulggg]

Thanks. I can’t avoid them as they’re coworkers most cases.

[bowenw]

At least you are aware of what they are doing.

[Hatefulggg]

Yeah. It’s weird though cause the more I research about how narcissistic people act towards victims, like what their tactics are, it makes me feel more wounded now. I already know I’m a huge pushover 24/7, and it seems like the more I learn and think about evil ways of others against me, it doesn’t necessarily help anymore. Maybe I need to stop that and just accept that yeah I’m a pushover. It’s not a good trait. But it’s part of why Im so hateful now. A person can only be disrespected repeatedly by almost everyone, so much …

[bowenw]

I think it's important that you understand your personality. There are aways going to be creeps that will take advantage of good nature and kindness. If you just slow down and think before you act if may help you avoid some of them.

[ChiTown33]

You're only a fool if you accept that you're a fool. You're only a victim if you accept being a victim. People can only play their part the can't make you accept the part they deem for you.

[Nikki1989]

Occasionally, you have to stand up for yourself and if you create enemies in the process, then so be it.

[Iron_Man]

Don’t tolerate any of this go to the gym get in shape stand your ground

[Avicenna]

You learn to stand up to this y behavior