Is it okay to work with your situation-ship or do they have lingering feelings?

[Anonymous]

We both liked each other but wasn’t the right time to commit. I did hurt him when he was madly in love with me so he acts like we never met in life.
Anyways as my boyfriend dumped and I went to him, He hurt me more. Things progressed to a situation where he expected me to be exclusive and I wasn’t allowed to date or have sex. Neither did he take me out and when I had, he wanted break and I moved onn.

Last day we met. He didn’t talk to me but said to his friend on something like ‘she used to talk but now doesn't and keeps distance’. He was all nervous, fidgety and angry despite he dumping me.

He stares at me at work, especially if I talk to guys or flirt. Always keep an eye on me. But doesn’t talk or look at me in the face.

Also he tried to keep on touch with me from time to time like text one morning, ensures i didn’t forget and then ghost. Now I stop responding.

Os it safe to work with him or does he have lingering feelings?

[Oliverlogan263]

From the sounds of it girl, this dude definitely still has some lingering feelings for you. A few signs:

- Getting nervous and angry even though he dumped you? That screams he's still salty about how things ended.

- Constantly staring and keeping an eye on you, especially when you talk to other guys. Major jealousy vibes.

- Trying to randomly text to "make sure you don't forget him" is such a fuckboy move. He wants the attention but isn't man enough to commit.

- The hot/cold way he ignores you in person but keeps semi-stalking your socials. He can't quit you sis!

I wouldn't say it's necessarily unsafe to work with him, but it's def gonna be awk af as long as he's got those unresolved feels. He's totally not over you.

To be real, I'd keep my distance from little bro as much as possible at work. Don't entertain his games - you've already moved on, so stay stepped! This one ain't worth the headache sis.

[spartan55]

Why not the right time?

[Asker]

Work as in office work

[spartan55]

Seems like you keep an even bigger eye on him.

[Anonymous]

Nothing I can do about it