Do you keep sexy pics/videos sent by an ex?

Question

One of my exes from years ago reached out lol and we were flirting…he confessed to still having my stuff and that he would use it for material. I don't know if I should see it as a compliment or find it weird tbh.

WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

I’m having deja vu, I feel like I answered this before, haha. But I have three R-rated pics of my girlfriend showing me a bedroom costume she bought (and I guess she did go through the effort of putting her hair up in a bun and doing makeup, it was secretary type thing, so she had the business-sexy thing going, haha). That is the extent of anything you could call a nude that I’ve ever received, lmao. And she emailed them😂😂😂 Pretty sure they were done on a real camera like 10 years ago, she probably still had a Motorola Razr at the time, lmao.

Long story short, I’m old as fuck (not sure when it happened, but here I am), plus I was the last man on Earth to get a cell phone, I rocked the landline until just couldn’t get laid with it anymore😂 It was a matter of pride and principle, and controlling the access others have to me, lmao. So I was only single for like three or four months when I first had the phone, then I met my lady, and 17 years BLEW BY, with nary a nude to show for it🤦‍♂️😂

Honestly, I never “got” nudes…. are we supposed to be getting turned on to still photos? I moved past that at like 14, haha. I guess I wouldn’t be upset to receive them or anything, but I can’t imagine punching the clown to a photo outside of a post-apocalyptic scenario😂

Red_Arrow · Accepted Answer

Guys are more visual than gals (generally). So guys often keep sexy nudes and videos they have been sent. A lot of women are happy that the guy still finds her sexy. Unfortunately, a lot of guys will forward them to others. A few gals are fine with that because they are exhibitionists and love guys, even strangers, looking at their bodies. I have always believed that those kind of pictures sent to me are for me only. I does not bother me if and ex sends them to others also, but that is her choice, not mine.

Aubrey97 · Accepted Answer

Honestly, there are probably some old pics in my texts or old e-mails like from high school or college somewhere but I'd never think to go actually go look for them. I never really go out of my way to delete anything. If I scroll to the bottom of my texts, they go back to 2017, e-mails even longer. They're there but I never open any of them.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No but my ex does of me. I used to send nudes and videos of myself masturbating like riding a large dildo or giving a bj to a dildo talking dirty like it was him. Anyway his new girlfriend went mental about it because she caught him jerking off to me. She released my pics and videos on to the Internet

Natasha1995 · Answer

I have sexy pics from my ex, but they're somewhere safe. I don't feel the need to look at them. I might as well just delete them, but somehow I won't.

Different though is what my ex would do with my pics. I never sent him nude pics, but he has loads of pictures of me being topless. Some of them were taken in a private setting, some public. I don't care if he looks at them, although that's something I will never know.

avery58 · Answer

I could never masturbate thinking about an ex... It would hurt and also be pointless. I can't get turned on by someone after we ended our relationship, I'd just want to move on.

paledreams · Answer

@KittygosMeoWW hmm, did a part of your mind instantly or afterwards remark internally "why now?" in a soft neutral internal voice tone? I would've in such a lady's shoes 👀💁🏻‍♀️

monkeymanoohaah · Answer

If I'm with another women then no I see that disrespectful to her

Simslover92 · Answer

I do honestly still have it but I keep it in a secure folder so it's away from my regular gallery so I don't even know it's there.

Finchie40 · Answer

No I don’t , she is an ex for a reason , exempt her from my life

MicahRaine · Answer

She never sent photos or videos like that. But no, I wouldn't. What he did was a compliment but a bad one because it shows disrespect.

elizamichale1 · Answer

I kept them for a while but then i deleted all

ponybabies · Answer

Not really no. If I have them it’s because I don’t go through my camera roll & just don’t care to go back tbh.

Oncewildtwiceburned · Answer

No, thats ridiculous, its an invasion of their privacy and creepy.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

These comments motivate me to remain more vigilant when searching for a partner no cap.

Dargil · Answer

I deleted them to avoid detection by my next ex. :-D

ItsaMeMaik · Answer

I delete such pictures/videos. Of course I would like to keep them, for obvious reasons 😅 But out of respect I do it anyway

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

I don't have any, but definitely would have kept it only for myself.

PeterLegg91 · Answer

My then girlfriend used to send me bra pics but when our relationship ended I deleted them in anger :(

SunnyRS · Answer

No, I don't keep stuff like that with me.  When I cut someone off from my life, I cut them off permanently.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I would delete anything like that sent to me.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

That's definitely a compliment and to answer your question it depends on how hot she is and how good she was in bed cause we do reminisce

Ironco · Answer

It's obvious he is trying to get with you again

CubaPirate · Answer

Never had any so its not an issue. But if I had I be respectful and delete them

Anonymous · Answer

I am enjoying nude sending and receiving this time... no ex

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah. I keep all of my nudes and vids. I don’t actually look at most of them much. But I do enjoy them. Some I look at a lot.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Only female ones.

Rohaan2020 · Answer

I don’t… do girls expect us to keep them?

bowenw · Answer

Haven’t kept any pictures, sexy or otherwise.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

ITS NORMAL  CAN I HAVE SOME

DerekC321 · Answer

I do but I keep them to myself

woahhh152 · Answer

Never. She's an ex for a reason

Reijen · Answer

Yes, they're my treasure.

Jpie555 · Answer

Of course I do, lol 😝

JohnnyB123321 · Answer

Yes for sure. I keep all of them.

Bẽllã3 · Answer

It’s a compliment

Mati91 · Answer

Nope burned them.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

no delete them all

In_Trance · Answer

Nope

Awantika03 · Answer

None

eagle1951 · Answer

no way

MasterKS · Answer

Take it easy!

Anonymous · Answer

I have no ex.

veeru303 · Answer

I Do

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