Probably edit photos if it was THAT good a photo... otherwise deleted.
I had an ex who gave me a little pencil holder... she cheated almost as soon as we started dating... dropped it (on purpose)... and got rid of it.
I dated a girl who gave me some dumb el cheapo thing... didn’t even get the cutesy “inside joke” right... it may be around somewhere - not keeping it on purpose... just can’t find it. may have gotten rid of it, but I don’t think so.
From friends I no longer really talk to? It depends.
If I was married, then got divorced, I might keep some things if they were good (or important) memories... otherwise, no, so far, none of the things have held that much significance. They didn’t take time, weren’t that important to me or the girl I dated, so they were trashed.
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I deleted everything. I had one night where I ordered a pizza and drank a lot of liquor. I turned on all of our favorite songs and started with the earliest pictures of our relationship and enjoyed the memories of our 5 year relationship/engagement one last time before I completely moved on. Sounds dramatic and lame but it was a painful breakup. I am stronger because I leave pain behind.
I deleted all of them, but to be honest I wish I didn't. I did it in a heat of a moment, the same day we broke up. I was angry and sad and I never wanted to see his face again. But now I regret it because no matter how badly he hurt me and how much of an ass he is, he was my first love, my first live-in boyfriend and my longest relationship of five years. And there was a good amount of time when we truly loved each other. Those pictures are the proof and a memory of those amazing times. I want to see those pictures again, not because of him or us together, but because of me with a huge smile and a happy face on them. I want to reminded how love is beautiful and how I can be happy.
It depends on the type of breakup and the type of person your ex was. In my case, I deleted everything because my ex wasn't a good guy. And when you keep pictures of someone who broke your heart in the past, it isn't the best way to move on. If you want to move on from an awful breakup, DELETE all the photos. It took me about 2 months to have the courage to delete everything. We did not have good memories because he was a manipulative liar. However, if your ex was a nice person and respected you... It's okay to keep some photos.
Yes, we're not together anymore so need to keep them. I guess if you and you're ex were married and it was a family picture, then that's okay to keep. But since it was just us, weren't married, didn't have kids, I deleted the pictures as a way to let go of the past in order to move on. Plus some people give a side eye to those who keep pics of their ex's cause their not sure if your keeping it cause it's a nice pic or keeping it cause part of you is still holding on to the past and the person.
I think it's okay to keep them for a while, it's difficult to delete good memories, but once you start seeing someone new, it seems respectful and healthy to let the other person go in all forms.
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I keep everything because the past informs who I am now. I don't white wash it.
I'm a little surprised at the replies below. I always felt that deleting pictures was a very female thing to do. I don't delete pictures of my exes but it's not because I want to keep them -- it's because I don't care enough to delete them. I mean, that strikes me as a lot of work for no reason and having her pictures on my computer or phone just doesn't bother me as I rarely ever see them anyway.
Your ex may never be part of your future but he is apart of your past. Sometimes it hurts to see pictures of your ex, so put them in a folder and bring them out later. Your ex is a piece of the puzzle of your life, and someday when you have children, you can share with them your history in life. My mother was engaged to a man before she met my father and I have always wondered what he looked like. Sure this was 50 years ago before computers, but she did have some pictures and my father made her throw them all away. So I vote to keep them, who knows, maybe your ex boyfriend is your future friend? My ex wife and I are great friends, I even have coffee with her current boyfriend.
In order to completely move on. I personally delete everything from the Ex’es.
They are not the same person we fell in love with and they wanted you for one reason or another out of their life by breaking up with you, so that’s exactly what I give them.
Plus holding on to things like that can cause unnecessary problems with your future partner & I don’t want the problem to be caused by an Ex, who I don’t care about anymore.
The experiences you had, the memories you had, stay in your heart & mind, you don’t need a picture to remind you of that, unless you just fondly keep looking at them, which would be a huge waste of time & space for someone who mopped the floor with you.
It also hinders your ability to move on by holding on to stuff like that.
Unless it’s a clothing item that I really like or something practical I get rid of everything else.I keep the photos as it was a point in my life that happened and worth remembering. I don't keep them to pine over what was lost, but rather to remember a time and person in my life that influenced who I am today.
For me, to erase those photos is akin to trying to wipe out part of my past. Painful or joyous, it still happened, and they changed me for better or worse.
I've only dated one person who got upset about me having those photos. We didn't last, it went down in flames, and yet I have photos of her and I together. Lol.Do as you see fit... My fb still has photos of my recent ex but she is deserving of the fact im keeping them.. She really wasn't a horrible person... She was just crazy and we weren't good for each other. However... I did cherish our time together and have nothing but good memories so i say im keeping them.. I still wish i had the video she allowed me to record of her enhiying the taste of her friends pussy... Fyi was delicious from the kissing after.. Her friends pussy was on her lips. And all in her mouth... But i would really enjoy watching that right about now.
It's stupid to delete photos. Like when you delete photos, will you also delete memories good or bad? I would not wanna delete photos at all as they remind me of good times, and i dont wanna remember anyone in a bad way, including an ex whom i broke up with on bad terms. Plus bad memories, and bad experienced with them gives you new experiences to not repeat again in your future relationships. So photos reminding good or bad things should stay as part of your body. So you can truly know you are moved on, once you are able to look at the photos without heartache.
I think with memories that I want to remember I'd keep them, although I'd probably store them well out of sight in case the pain is too much, with nudes and such I don't see the point in deleting them, I just wouldn't share them or anything, personal use only, just as intended when they were sent.
I guess if they asked me to delete them I'd delete the nudes, not the underwear stuff though.
Basically I wouldn't really delete any, and anything incriminating or embarrassing to the girl I'd be very careful to not let others see it, because that'd be a horrible move to share their nudes, like I've had my best friend share on one occasion a photo of his girlfriend in their underwear with me to basically prove how beautiful she is and how lucky he was to have her, which personally I wouldn't do, but at least it wasn't a "hey, look at her hot body, feel free to enjoy that photo" kinda thing, that'd just be plain wrong.
All this is about a hypothetical future girlfriend, single atm ):I delete them, at least off of my social media. I don't want any future dates or SOs to see my ex. It is better to leave that in the past. I have all the memories in my head. Any pictures we have printed, I keep in a box and store it away.
It is better that way I think. Moving on can be hard enough without having a constant reminder.
Now if the relationship ended on 100% mutual terms and I was friends with her, that would be a different story. I'd probably keep some pics, but not all of them.I do. I keep them all to remember good times. Photos are photos that's all. However if you're in love with the guy in the photo then is different and you need to rectify it especially if you have a man. But I keep mine to remember all the shit I did, also, to remember certain situations. If a problem arises sometimes seeing the photo you can remember that you've dealt with the problem before and how you dealt with it. Memory is key to. Learning and changing old behavior as well. Photos, as well as smells can help with that.
Delete.
Even if we parted on good terms, I'd delete them.
I have no need to keep anything of sentimental value of my ex. I move forward with my life after a relationship fails. I don't hold onto anything that I put behind me. I prefer to create new memories on my own, or with someone new. I'm not sentimentalYes I have kept the pics of my ex... She dumped me to b wid sum other guy but my love fr her was true so culdnt frgt her or delete our memories.. initially I had kept them in phone but I jus kept looking at them Nd missing her Nd got into depression imagining her wid sumbdyelse so I decided to delete her pics but then it was like the onli memories I had wid her so I decided to move them to a pendrive Nd Il see them wen I m dying jus before I leave this world.. it's like I have put a part of my soul in the pendrive..
I would delete them because I don't need to remember a past relationship, I don't need to reminisce on the past. I know who I am and I don't need photos to tell me who and what I am. Heck, a lot of the times it just causes jealousy having pictures. If you have a girlfriend there is no reason to have photos of past relationships. In a way I view it as someone who just hasn't truly lost all their emotion for their ex, and that isn't healthy for a relationship no matter how you try to think about it.
I have a few but I would have to backtrack on my emails. I don't care about her anymore, the minute I find another girl who I may potentially marry I will make sure anything from girls I use to know and talk to ex-girlfriends is deleted for good.
I don't need that shit in a new place, with a new girl, and with a new dream. There is a reason why they are your ex, I say it's best to delete everything because this person is not someone you have to think about or try to be in touch with (unless you had a kid together) and if that's not the case then end it, you will feel better.I delete the texts, numbers but I keep pictures, in a folder at my pc where I don't really look at them lol
Its your choice. if you can ctrl your emotions so there is no problem. but maybe in the future you meet a guy who is sensitive and he gets upset with you because of your videos and pictures. I think its better to delete them, that wouldn't make any issues in the future.
You'll move on, you will change your mind. And those memories are never gone. You might not remember them for a while but the next time you find yourself in a similar situation you'll think back and know what you do. And you'll be able to tell people about it, and use thinks you like to be positive towards others
Leave the past behind when starting a new future. Unless there is an extremely high chance you'll get back together, let them live as memories not pictures.
When you meet someone new you'll want to delete them else your knew found love might not feel comfortable knowing you think back on your previous love affairs, especially if you have a fight they'll believe you secretly wish you were back in the other relationship.It depends on the ex... if it was a girl I was actually in love with, or a situation I can look back on favorably, most likely, yes. I'll make a backup of the unique/good ones, take all of them off my phone (so they're not immediately visible every day), and set the FB copies to private. It's useful for growth.
The ones I delete are the cheaters, the instigators, the one who called the cops with a bogus story that I broke into her apartment... those are all gone.
But the women I've really loved are an engrained part of my person and I carry those lessons with me, for better or worse.Believe me, after awhile after deleting the pics, you'll feel much better. Keeping them doesn't help.
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