Why do guys ask what I do in my free time?

[Lodmoon]

Coworkers have asked me this randomly. I wonder why. I never have a good answer.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You don’t have any passions? Nothing that gives you a sense of purpose outside of your job?

[Nikki1989]

It is just small talk, nosy but small talk just the same.

[Gengi87]

Just making small talk or trying to get to know you better

[Lodmoon]

Great. I’m boring I don't know why they want to know me.

[Gengi87]

Uh I'd say boring is a matter of opinion and you're never boring to someone who is into the same things as you are

[Lodmoon]

Cool. I don’t really have hobbies I just listen to music and surf the web or go outside sometimes. Other people always seem way more interesting and have friends to do things with.

[Gengi87]

What kinda music

[Lodmoon]

All kind

[Gengi87]

I'm mostly 50s to 90s rock/ country

[Lodmoon]

Fave?

[Gengi87]

Song or singer?

[Avicenna]

They’re probably just trying to get to know you

[Lodmoon]

Why haha

[Avicenna]

That’s normal

[spartan55]

Because it is a common question to ask.

[WhitneySnow]

Polite curiosity

[jahaims]

That's a normal question to ask

[woahhh152]

It's a normal question