I dont get it why he care about how other people see us?

[Anonymous]

Like, everytime if we are on the verge of arguing or misunderstanding..

He ALWAYS ended up trying to conceal it by saying “we dont want other people see us being drama right” and no, we dont fight infront of people or anytg, so i assume he is scared how the next day when we go to campus, how people gonna sense the diff in us maybe?

Like? Im truly clueless. Does that mean our friendship purely mean for a show? Or what? Or did he notice that everyone notice us and think we are a couple, so he just want to play along with that idea without any meaning?

Im brain dead thinking about that statement

[D_Bone_Steak]

My wife used to try and pick fights in public and it was sort of the same situation... she'd gain the upper hand because simps and other women are around... they'll take her side if I defend myself and she's the one making it a public scene.

I'm not sure if this is what's going on with you and him... but allow me to tell you how I solved this problem.

I finally said fuck it, want to make a scene, let's make a fucking scene. I'd grab the first simp that looked like he was going to take her side and break his fucking arm and throw him out the window. I'd slap the random bitches. I no longer give a fuck.

She stopped that public shit real fast. She tried it once more (of course because women do that shit) and as soon as it was me that started acting crazy... the table got flipped... it was now her asking me to calm the fuck down and stop acting like this in public.

Trust the Science: See, all I did was become what she was doing to me and just made it more extreme. I shut it down because that's so extreme that even she didn't want to deal with that shit and it was not working out in her favor. So she dropped the tactic entirely.

Here's what I really think: I think you're shit testing him. You make it a public scene because you know who sides with the woman... pretty much everyone. He's backing off and you're winning them. Congratu-fucking-lations. Social manipulation works for you. But you gonna keep doing this until he becomes me? I was once just like him as he is now... I fucking eventually snapped. Now I'll beat the shit out of random women just for looking like they agree with her. I'll beat her man up too... I don't give a fuck. And that's what it took to get my woman to shut the fuck up and calm down herself because I'm way worse than she'll ever be... and she fucking knows it now.

I think you two should calmly discuss your disagreements in private and remember a raised voice only happens when one thinks they can't be heard. The argument should be logical and broken down into pieces.

But if you want drama... keep bringing the public and others into it. He'll eventually become a psycho just like me. This is how a man like myself is made.

[D_Bone_Steak]

FYI... I was not trying to make anyone's pussy wet. You random women sending me PM's about how wet I just made your pussy need to shut the fuck up. I will slap the shit out of you. What the fuck is wrong with you people?

[D_Bone_Steak]

I don't even know this chick... we are not fucking... you fucking retards. Look, I was trying to make a fucking point. It's a fucking pink anon... I don't know this chick! WTF you think I send my magic dick through the internet and just fuck everyone in the world? I don't know her, and no I never had sex with her. For all I know it's a fucking man. Get real.

[boggboss]

I think its pretty normal to not like creating a scene and a circus show for others if u are going to have a argument keep it between the two of you why involve the world

[Asker]

Im not involving others. And its just between us, we even fight in close area, not a single soul could see us.
Then why would he suddenly say that? As if thats the only thing that matters to him rather than the issue between us.

[boggboss]

No idea have u asked him to explain what he means

[EmmaMary]

Have you never heard of the saying "don't wash your laundry in public" if not, might I suggest you look it up.

[Asker]

We dont fight in public. Just that most prolly the after effect of not talking as much or not that close anymore. And i always thought that is normal.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Nikki1989]

He is dealing with insecurities.

[molonski2]

Private and personal issues should never be played out in public , nothing worse , this is what he is talking about , never air your dirty laundry , so don't argue in public.

[Asker]

I got it.
But even if we truly get in a fight (and as i said, we never do it publicly, its always at close area), us not talking is normal i guess? Its normal we see friends not talking and we dont judge. Its not like i will totally sit at the end of the world and avoid him or something

[molonski2]

I think if you disagree privately , that's fine , try and talk it though and see if you can reach common ground. I agree with him though , try not to take that distain public. Try not to fight , try to disagree , otherwise you bring emotion into it.

[jahaims]

A couples disagreement is a private event