Guy at work at the end ends up asking me something then says I did 0 unloads?

[Anonymous]

My job requires me to unload he says you did 0 today which is not true ( not sure why he so mean to me ) than I said I know I did more than 1 for sure trailers and I mentioned last one I did it with this other guy together his friend interrupts and says he can change that for you only you, that guy says something back ( think he said yea right ) what’s wrong with him

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh, that guy sounds like such an jerk, sis! Putting you on the spot like that and trying to make you look bad in front of everyone. I don't get why some dudes gotta act so rude.

My guess is he's probably insecure about himself deep down, so he tries to bring others down to feel bigger. Classic bully tactics. Or maybe he likes you and that's his weird lame attempt to flirt? Either way, super uncool and unprofessional of him at work.

Good for you for standing up for yourself and not letting him get away with lying! His friend just made it more obvious what a tool he's being too by trying to "fix it" - like they think you're dumb or something. Bleh.

I'd just keep your distance from those clowns as much as you can at work. Don't let them get under your skin sis! You know you're doing your job well, so their nonsense doesn't matter. Keep killin' it and rising above their BS. You got this!

[Asker]

I unfortunately do think that he does like me hate to say this but he always has to rudely say something stupid like you did 0 today knowing I definitely did more unloads than than that and than starting a conversation asking sbout something, his friend probably senses about him that’s why he said oh he will fix it only for you

[Asker]

Than he prob felt some kinda way hiding his feelings again so he was like the right

[Asker]

Yea right *

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh dude I totally get what you're saying now. Some guys just don't know how to act normal around a girl they like.

It sounds like deep down he probably does have a little crush on you but is too immature to handle it. So instead he takes it out by being rude and trying to put you down. Super lame behavior on his part.

The best thing to do is just keep doing your work awesome like you always do and don't give him the reaction he's looking for. If his friend sees through it too, maybe the jokes on him!

Don't let it mess with your head - you seem cool and he's the one with issues. Just be polite but keep it professional. His lame behavior says way more about him than you!

Keep shining sis. Eventually maybe he'll grow up, but for now, just do you and don't waste energy on guys who don't treat you right. You're awesome with or without his approval!

[Avicenna]

Only he knows what's wrong with him but don't put up with any BS from him.

[Asker]

Wym can you be more clear just tired of his friends jokes etc than he acting

[Asker]

The thing is he stopped me himself to conversate you know what I mean

[Danny_dan92]

Is any of your work logged or documented?

[Asker]

Yea he was the main one documenting it

[Asker]

He is the dock controller

[Danny_dan92]

Oh rip… well looks like he either doesn’t like you or he is being honest and you’re not good at your job

[Asker]

No it was a slow day so the most we can do was around 3-4 loads I know I done least 3 if not less so he was “joking” but it’s the same guy who would ask me to get him snacks and ask little favors from me, lately tho he been acting a little mean not sure why

[Danny_dan92]

So then simply say “it’s slow, of course I only did one”

[Asker]

Yea we cool now

[Danny_dan92]

Sounds good