Why do most girls like bad guys?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Most girls’ like a guy that can balance in between good and bad , Most females’ are natural care takers , she was raised to take care of her spouse and children , she doesn’t want a guy that constantly acts like her child , she wants a guy she can look up to and feel safe and protected by , that can take lead that can tolerate her shit. Yes she wants to be pampered but not all the time , Guys’ that constantly kiss her ass and try to do everything for her will eventually get bored of him because he isn’t a challenge , Girls’ like being challenged , why arguing is good , if she isn’t arguing with you , that pretty much means she has no passion for you , you are boring and dull to her , she wants a guy that can stand his ground that isn’t constantly depending on her to take care of him. Most girls’ love a man that is hard working , that comes home from work and assists with taking some of the load off of her hands , especially if kids’ are involved or she works full time as well. She doesn’t want to be your maid , she wants a partner , a guy that doesn’t mind getting his hands dirty that doesn’t just come home and plop his ass on the couch , When a girl feels she has a partner , she has no problem getting on her knees to please you , if she isn’t getting on her knees for you , she is probably getting down on her knees for someone else. Females’ want to be heard and they want to be listened to , she doesn’t want to have to tell you over and over where something is in the house , she wants a guy that can just do things himself without her constantly reminding him , it’s not always going to be perfect , but once she fails she has a partner and feels safe and protected by him , she will keep him satisfied in the bedroom ,

elaphe1 · Accepted Answer

Smart girls like good guys.

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

They don't like bad guys they just don't like boring guys.. and most 'nice' guys are boring asf LOL

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think it's because they're in a trauma bond with that bad guy which can be addictive.

Sour-rose · Answer

Better than a nice guy? A bad boy is somewhat exciting, more than a guy who makes them feel bored.

EzraIsShy76028 · Answer

If I were to guess it's just the thrill/risk of it. The thrill/risk part of it is very appealing to people in their teens and 20s since people in that range usually like to take a lot of risks by default (not even necessarily by choice, just the physical brain chemistry that age, so I've read) they go for something that's against what older people would advise for them to do.

The type of girls who go for bad guys are mostly just that though. In their teens and 20s. Probably because people that age just want to experiment and fuck around rather than look for a long lasting relationship.

Women in their 30s and older are much less likely to go for the bad guy types. They often want someone they can actually settle down with and perhaps even have children with. They're not gonna go for a guy who acts like he's still in high school or college.

Women in their 30s and up most likely just want a kind and caring hard working guy who is financially stable and who would be a good role model for their children, and who is able to make them laugh and have fun.

Seeing that you're 30 years old that bad guy phase should be over for women your age, unless you're in a college or something where you're regularly around 20 something year olds.

Xasiledo · Answer

The "Bad boy" archetype typically means someone who gets their way and is assertive, often ignoring the rules/protocol to achiece an end goal. These types of people tend to be interesting and may attract the people who want to "fix" beasts into princes, but moreso it's these traits that are favorable in success. Some people are attracted to success in any form it takes, from a successful millionaire to someone with millions of followers on social media.

"Nice guy" describes someone who pretends to be nice and is kind and courteous to women only while they think they can get something from a woman. Then, when that women has no romantic or sexual interest in them, they turn into "bad boys", or pardon my french, a**holes trying to convince themselves they are better than the woman they depressed themselves over. These types of people are wolves in sheep's clothing.

The "bad guys" let their intentions be known and can at least be trusted to behave the way they are. When they want something, they go and get it. They don't have to pretend to be virtuous to get what they want. If they get rejected or fail, they move on to their next goal instead of ruminating on it and wallowing in their failures.

If you want something, don't beat around the bush. Make mistakes. Learn from your mistakes. Accept your past. Get what you want and grow to appreciate yourself rather than compare yourself to others.

Why ask why others are getting the best time of their life when you could be getting it yourself?

Anonymous · Answer

because bad guys tend to be more masculine than good guys

just look at Tim Walz vs Donald Trump

Tim Walz tries to portray himself as a loveable man

Donald Trump doesn't give a fuck and has women lining up for him throughout his life

LostandFound__x · Answer

Because a lot of us have a hidden bad side and being with a bad guy activates it. It’s thrilling.

Blitterflicker · Answer

It’s not most of us at all… some of you need to leave the house.

there's a huge difference between “bad guys” and regular guys who aren’t simps. Majority of us are with something in between that, just because we don’t like nice guys/incels doesn’t mean we are going for bad boys/ f boys

mandyfire98 · Answer

What some guys think "bad guys" are might not be what others think they are.

ChillNsweet32 · Answer

Bad guys are dicks, but I'd rather a dick than a pussy any day 😂

RageBabe · Answer

I did in my teens and early twenties. I'm in my early thirties now, and I don't want a bad boy anymore. I need stability at this age, and from what I've seen, most “bad boys” don't provide that.

Shamalien · Answer

They grow out of it eventually, for the most part anyway. Never date a girl who had a long “bad boy” phase though. One relationship is a mistake, a string of relationships / hookups is a pattern, and you do not wanna be a washed up slut’s backup plan

mobiusforniner · Answer

Spoken by someone who likely thinks of himself as a “nice guy” and who likely assigns “bad guy” labels to guys who get what he can’t, in order to make up for his own shortcomings

236color · Answer

If she does all those bad, nasty, dirty things with him, it's his fault, he's bad. If she does them with a nice guy, she WANTED to.

Vegasrunner · Answer

It's not that they like bad guys it's that the traits that bad guys poses are attractive to women. Women are emotional creatures so it's difficult for them to ignore their feelings in favor of logic.

Chelsdope0 · Answer

They make you feel beautiful during the highs of it all.. they are fun… but you go through the worst pain dealing with them in the end

LiamJHayden · Answer

They don't, but they tend to not like  boring  guys, so if all the decent guys nearby are also snorefests, they could go for the "bad guys" out of boredom.

exitseven · Answer

The majority really does not. A few with low self esteem may like them.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

The "Bad guy" usually has confidence and that's what women are drawn to. I don't think most women genuinely like a bad guy who is actually disrespectful.

Starrrboy · Answer

Because bad guys are just being themselves and not pretending to be anything or asking people to like them..

Unit1 · Answer

The Bad guys are excellent liars and posers!

JesseP1nk · Answer

this

Nikki1989 · Answer

You can't know many girls if you think this bollocks is even remotely true.

paledreams · Answer

Some women are bad 😔 really.  You know there's a fair chunk of criminal prisons that are female, not just male prisons. Cringey :(

Anonymous · Answer

So called "bad boys" represent the so called "toxic masculinity" women love to hate, but also find irresistible.

ibodi · Answer

Good guys can not do anything on her.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

It's a rush. It's fun. Bad guys are addictive.

PatKirby · Answer

Lack of self-esteem going back to their relationship with their fathers.

Sadia26 · Answer

Not most girls but the immature ones who think they will be good only for her do.

CandiKrunch · Answer

What's even more baffling to me is that if guys know this, why not go with the flow?

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Only the bad girls like bad guys. Good girls like good guys.

Squatting_Slav · Answer

Confident and have the ability to protect as they aren't pushovers

Anonymous · Answer

We don't. You're just ugly.

WhyohWhy69 · Answer

Most aren’t for long.

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Money money money money

robocop666 · Answer

FJ shark wrote a book on it

Staximus · Answer

They think it's like adopting a stray dog

Tomisworthless · Answer

Because cowards are unattractive

jahaims · Answer

Brainwashed

Paul04 · Answer

This is the million dollar question

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