Well does he really likes me?

[am1237]

so i have a huge crush on a guy. like the first day i saw him i fell for him. But honestly i think that he is way out of my league. one day when i was looking at him he saw it. and after that he always look at me when i come. his friends also laugh at look at him when i am also there. one day i was going with my friend and she told me look he is looking back at you. when i turn around to see he was really looking back at me. but the thing is like he is like all fit and a bit muscular but i am chubby all my friends say he likes you back but i mean how can he. i really wanna know...

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1 y

well today what happened like we are in same tuition.. well he is in other batch. so i came first. after some time he came with his friend. as soon as they saw me his friend started laughing. then they enter the room. first he sat behind me and then suddenly he stood up and sat in front of me... like why there were so many seats vacant why he sat in front of me...

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1 y

today what happened is that today his classes was in room next to mine. so his break was going on. he came out with his friends. i saw him and we had an eye contact. i saw him he was looking at me while standing out during break with his friends.

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl it sounds like there's definitely something there with this guy! Guys don't usually stare and have their friends point stuff out unless they're interested. And believe me, looks aren't everything - he's probably checking you out because you seem really fun and sweet!

I would say keep catching his eye from a distance and smile when you notice him looking. Maybe find an excuse to walk by where he's hanging out so he has a chance to start a conversation. Don't sell yourself short either - you have a lot to offer too with your great personality!

The only way to really know for sure how he feels is to flirt back a little and see how he responds. But from the signs he's giving, it seems there could definitely be potential there. So put on your cute outfit, stand tall and confident, and see what happens if you give him a chance to chat you up. You never know - he might be thinking you're the one that's way out of HIS league!

[am1237]

i know but i am a bit scared you know. i mean how can he likes me

[Oliverlogan263]

I get it, girl - it's totally normal to feel scared and unsure about this. I know it's hard to believe someone you're crushing on could actually like you back, especially when you feel like they're out of your league.

But from everything you've described, it really does seem like this guy is into you! The constant eye contact, the way he's going out of his way to sit near you and interact - that's not just random behavior. He's clearly making an effort to be around you and get your attention.

And the fact that his friends are even teasing him about it is a huge sign. They can see he's got a crush on you too. So don't sell yourself short here - this guy clearly sees something special in you, even if you can't see it yourself right now.

I know it's scary to put yourself out there, but you gotta at least give it a shot, girl. The worst that can happen is he's not interested, but at least then you'll know for sure. And who knows - he might just surprise you. Dudes can be really insecure too, so he might be feeling just as nervous about making a move.

Just focus on being your confident, amazing self. Chat him up, smile, make eye contact. Put a little flirty energy out there and see how he responds. If he's into it, great! If not, at least you'll know. But don't sell yourself short, okay? You've got a lot to offer, and this guy clearly sees that in you.

Take a deep breath, girl. You've got this. Just go for it - what do you have to lose? Wishing you all the best with this crush of yours!

[236color]

Fortune favors the bold. Go talk to him. I think his friends are acting the way they are because, they no there's something going on. You're very young, guys your age are often VERY shy. You could help him out a little by getting the ball rolling. Maybe he is out of your league, but those relationships happen. Sounds like he might be interested.

[SueShe]

Leagues are constructs that people make to segregate them into categories. If you really want it, there is no such thing as a league.

He seems to want to play with you but people only play with those that they like. Thus I would assume that he does like you in a way or another.

It does not mean that because he is sporty or lean he does not like you, even if you have a few extra pounds. What matters is the aura that you send to others.

There is only one way to find out and that is to ask him directly. By doing that, you confront him and he might deny it. However, you can "read" him and assess if he truly dislikes you or not. Body language does not lie.

[EmmaMary]

@am1237

Please, please, please don't keep putting yourself down... Try taking a deep breath and start a conversation... Talk to him... You just never know, life at times can be full of unexpected nice surprises... Good luck and keeping fingers crossed for you. 🤞

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Abbycado]

There isn’t enough of a sign from just looking at you but that is a good one at least. If he is doing it a lot he might indeed like you.

Don’t count yourself out or talk about “leagues”. Just put your best self forward.

[Makeushiver]

@Abbycado Excellently. put.

[Abbycado]

@Makeushiver ty

[Kayleigh2005]

Just say hi three times when he's not round his friends, well over a couple days and he seems to like u !

Go for it

[Nikki1989]

There are NO leagues, and a mere look doesn't mean a thing.

[Viking_Girl19]

I think you need to talk. Try to make the first move, just say "hello" and smile)

[Iron_Man]

Yes he does