Why would a guy who seems to like me & on and off abuses me verbally at work sometimes seem like he wants my approval?

[Badhfiri]

He seemed nervous and would agree with everything I said. It was odd

[SueShe]

Those are the typical behaviors of people that seek validation from just about anyone and wants to be in people's good books. They tend to lack self-confidence and have a low esteem of themselves. Their self value needs to be boosted and anything is good to them to get that boost.

Those are the introvert type of people that are also narcissistic but totally insecure about themselves.

The fact that they are verbal with others just confirms that they are unable to take criticism too well and will fly off the handle if someone contradicts them or does not approve of their acts or behavior.

[spartan55]

You are feeding a troll just an FYI.

[SueShe]

Thanks Mr. Spartan for the feedback 😕

[Nikki1989]

This is a confusing dynamic where the victim seeks validation and approval from the abuser. It is not healthy. Very toxic.

[ohsheeT]

It's probably bipolar or he's never been around girls before.

So he doesn't know how to treat them

Or he's treating you the same way his dad treated his mom

Or after you verbally abuses you does he look at you like okay what is she going to do how far can I go it's just something that I wouldn't want to be a part of anyway he's too wishy-washyre-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[moneymagnet24]

Because you're Emma Watson and he wants your attention re-state//background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft

[Badhfiri]

Okay

[moneymagnet24]

What's your tits size?

[Badhfiri]

Okay.

[moneymagnet24]

Okay too my love 😘

[Badhfiri]

Okkk

[moneymagnet24]

😘😘 come to pm wanna fun with you

[spartan55]

Would you stop with this stupid shit? You are mental.

[jahaims]

He is immature and doesn't know how to process emotion