He's not coming back?

[Anonymous]

A guy friend whom i rejected harshly. he's not coming back. No matter how many times i text him he's just ignoring me. I deleted him from all social media and today i tried to add him back, he rejected me again. Im lost what should i do? I feel like i lost a big opportunity. Im getting irritated because he acts like i dont exist anymore.

[SueShe]

Why are you surprised?

Rejecting someone is bad enough but doing it a harsh way is like a double stabbing in the back. You knew what you were doing and now you are surprised.

I would act the same. You cannot just play with people's feelings and then expect them to be ok with it. Some people (not all) have also feelings, self-esteem and dignity. You obviously did not consider all those facts when you rejected him harshly.

Hope this is a lesson to you. It is your right of course to reject someone but do it in such a way that you don't make them feel like they are worth nothing.

Your best and only option is to move on and learn a lesson.

[avery58]

So what do you want with him? Do you just regret how you treated him and want to be friends again or want something more?

[Anonymous]

What do you do? You learn from this.

I had this happen to me. After I severed all ties to her she stalked me for two years. Finally she unfriended me on Facebook. But deep down I do hope she messages me again just so I can ignore it. I will never give an inch again EVER.😆

[spartan55]

Why do you feel entitled to him coming back to you? You blew it, and to get upset with him about anything is absurd.

[Anonymous]

What did you expect? That he’d try harder? That only happens in movies. Let this be a lesson: don’t play games with people’s feelings.

[Anonymous]

Send him nudes and he will be there within 29 minutes

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately it seems like he doesn't want contact with you anymore and there's not really much you can do about that.

[Anonymous]

Get over it and move on.

[Anonymous]

But u didn’t want him.