SO i was been seeing this guy who i ADORED for a bit. We were doing absolutely amazing. He would open doors for me (car door, house door, restaurant, etc). We did date nights once to twice a week. He would always make plans for us , and would constantly say i will make you my girlfriend, and was sooo excited to see me. We averaged hanging out 2-3 times a week because he has a daughter. He was so sweet and treated me so good, it was a breath of fresh air for once, but he has severe anxiety. I was crazy but i thought i found my person. Last week, we had not seen each other for like 4-5 days due to having his daughter while the mother was away. It was normal plus i was working a lot. I was so excited to see him after he dropped her off Thursday night but the last couple days I’ve been in a weird funk , I think it was because I’m overworked and tired/overthinking but my feelings for him were still there. I went over , so I came in and We kissed, it felt off. He was super quiet almost didn't speak most of the night. I cuddled him, he eventually moved off me. I asked , hey you alright do you still like me cause I feel like you’ve been off lately. I feel like you seem like you’re not as excited to see me. He was like what do you mean, gave a short "no" response and went back to being quiet. so I asked again what’s going on, you aren’t yourself and I don’t like it. He’s like I feel different and then I asked, is it your anxiety, is it you , is it me, or us. He opened up after asking continuously and was like I thought I was ready to be in a committed relationship but I think I’m not ready. He’s like I like you, you’re amazing , you are sweet. I’m not seeing anyone else. You’re a great girl. I trust you. I sat there so stunned. He said we can text/talk you but I feel like I can’t do this right now , I’m not ready, I don’t want you to wait for me cause I don’t want you to waste your time or keep this going.
This is not where I ever expected it to go at all... HELP
