My fiancé and I dated several years ago and he left out the blue. We reconnected recently and things moved quickly - he wanted to prove he would never leave again. We quickly got engaged and our wedding was planned for this month. 3 months ago we found out I was pregnant - it was unplanned but still a happy surprise as it was always in our plan - just a little sooner than expected! He seemed genuinely happy but my fear of him leaving remained. He has a track record of abruptly ending relationships. Fast forward to 3 weeks ago - we had been having a few minor arguments - I was suffering from major insomnia and sickness in my pregnancy and it made me over-sensitive and perhaps not the easiest of people to be with. We were having a silly argument over text then he told me to leave and go to a hotel. He blocked me, immediately deleted our photos on social and blocked me on there too and sent me an email dumping me and kicking me out the house - I have no family in this country. I begged him to have a conversation face to face and waited up all night but he never came home. His emails became nastier and nastier, he said he didn’t love me and accused me of trapping him etc. the next day I left and got a hotel - I stuck it out for 2 weeks until my next baby scan and now I’m back in Europe with family. I’m confused and devastated. I was blindsided - the night before we had a beautiful date night and made love. It makes no sense. He’s a textbook narc. My therapist say I will never understand because he has a disorder and it’s no good trying to relate. He continues to send me abusive emails and is so cruel. He says he wants to be in baby’s life and will support me when baby is born. I know this sounds crazy but I want my family to be together. We haven’t spoken in almost a week - he hasn’t checked on me since I left the US. Do you think he will come around and realize what he’s lost? Is this just a freak out? I’m so confused how a man could do this.
My narcissist fiancé kicked me out pregnant, will he come back?
