Do men NOT expect women to catch feelings after being intimate? why would he say this?

[Anonymous]

For a man to tell you he doesn’t want to sleep with you because he doesn’t want you to get “crazier “… I don’t know if I’m supposed to feel hurt about that or not… but I like him and that stung

[Stevepro68]

If a man says know to physical love of any kind. He is either not attracted to you or women in general. Sorry it's rare but a clear message.

[Asker]

I think he’s closeted but he rejected me because I wanted to wait for sex so I’m confused… he said he was scared to sleep with me because I’ll be crazier

[Asker]

He said he wanted to sleep with me but was scared to

[ClassicDropout]

I don't really expect a girl to catch feelings after the fact. Like if we had sex, she better have already had some type of feeling for me lol

[Asker]

Well yeah you already have feelings.. but he said “crazier “…

[ClassicDropout]

He probably realized you like him a lot more than he likes you

[Asker]

He didn’t have to say that.. I thought he liked me

[Asker]

He wanted a trans woman

[236color]

I would assume from that comment that he's just not that into you. Move on.

[Asker]

He wants to be with a trans woman

[236color]

Yup, and if you're not, it isn't going to work.

[Asker]

But he pursuede first

[Asker]

Pursued me first

[236color]

Well people are a bundle of contradictions many times. If he's looking for a transwoman, I'd say his sexuality is probably too complicated for the kind of relationship most people are looking for.

[Asker]

I don’t know if he wants to be with one but I’d assume since he follows naked trans women or explicit trans content.

[Anonymous]

You're in your late 20's/early 30's and you STILL use that stupid childish term, "catch feelings"? You make it sound like a fucking disease!! How do you CATCH feelings?