Am I right for feeling upset a guy said “I wanted you to suck my d tbh” after we went to the movies?

[Anonymous]

We were talking about how turned on each other got after the kiss and then he hit out with that. It was only tthe second date and I only met him like a week before it

[LeatherDame]

I think, with the context being that you were both talking about how turned on you were, that him saying that was him trying to say he was really turned on and thinking about doing sexy things with you too.


I probably would not take it as him expecting you to unless he’s otherwise indicating that’s the case.


So you’re not wrong for feeling upset, he was a bit too forward for your comfort levels and being upset is a normal boundary. I just wouldn’t hold it against him too much in this case unless it becomes part of a pattern. A chat about making sure he respects you and him following through on that would be fine I think.

[BarryLiverstone]

If you feel upset that he’s being honest why is that? You said you were sharing you were both turned on and it doesn’t sound like he asked for oral.

[slatyb]

You feel what you feel. He sounds rather transactional. Dump.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I dont know what to say here

[Danny_dan92]

If you didn’t want to? Yeah