How are you supposed to know he doesn't like you like that if he is always staring, and flirting, and texting?

[Anonymous]

He gives all the signs. He is always staring at me. And not just looking here or there but we make eye contact and we've had moments where it's like we've look too long to just be friends. He always says and does nice things. He will make sure my happiness is above all else. He texts me back right away. He's very responsive. But since I've told him like like him he has pushed me away. How am into assume he was just having fun or he didn't like me like that?

[Anonymous]

In general a lot of men are nice. It we don’t always show it especially nowadays because of things like this. Being accused of something. I’ve been accused of flirting w one of the girls at work simply because we talk a lot, we work well together. I always know where she is, she always knows where I’m at. But I talk to her a lot not cause I’m infatuated w her, but because she’s easy to talk to. I get along w her. I can crack jokes that she will laugh at w out being concerned that the principal will call me into the office. She’s very helpful. She’ll talk to me a lot, come say hi, lean on my shoulder when I’m sitting but it’s nothing. Seems as though too many women think just cause a man looks in their direction or talks to her or something he’s hitting on her. The only thing I can say is ok maybe he is flirting w you but he has a partner so he isn’t going passed that. Or you called him out on it, he is picked then backed off. Or he just likes the attention.

[slatyb]

Is he single? Sounds like he is not. In any case he told you, there's nothing more for you to do. He's attracted but unwilling for some reason.

[Nikki1989]

You can't tell anything from staring, flirting, and texting. Do the mature adult thing and communicate the proper way.

[spartan55]

If he liked you he wouldn't have pushed you away.

[Asker]

Yes I see that now. I guess it's just a big game. Guy leads girl on. Girl developed feelings. Girl should have just known Guy didn't feel the same...

[spartan55]

Maybe Girl did something that put Guy off, and it wasn't some diabolical plot on his part.

[Asker]

Liked him... I wish I had a better story.

[spartan55]

You just completely ignored my point. What a surprise.

[WhitneySnow]

I agree with you