If men want to solve men's problems then they need to grow up and stop acting like children. Do you really think labelling each other alphas and betas does anyone's self esteem any good? Do you really think shitting on each other constantly because political persuasion or anything else does anyone's mental health any good. Many of you say "names will never hurt me" so why do you throw them other than to cause hurt. You're not in the playground now, grow up.
They say no man's an island, yet you've got a stand on your own too feet mentality. Anyone who needs a little help is weak, to be ridiculed, a burden to society and embarrassment to his ancestors. You've taught yourself never to ask for help and never to give it. This is why so many of you end up homeless or on drugs. Here's a little tip, if you catch people before they fall or pick them up quick it's better for everyone because the further you fall down a hole the harder it is to climb back to ground level. Ever considered if you stopped being a dick to others you might get help yourself when you need it?
Men are more likely to be the victims of violence. So, ever thought about not hitting stabbing, shooting each other? Ever notice people who live in nice neighbourhoors don't go around having punch ups? Stop looking for excuses to prove your manliness because no one outside the gutter respects that. Remember if you don't want treated like a dog then don't bark.
Would men's problems go away if they stopped acting like children?
Childhood is not an isolated time box. From what I observed, childhood still flows and affects everything throughout the course of time. The only way to wipe out childhood seems to use denial or repression. Which doesn't sound like a good idea.
I don't know how to deal with cultures fitting your description of a certain way to look at masculinity, because cultures are gods. We walk among gods trying, at best, to figure out which divinity speaks the right words. The words we deem right, that is, fitting what we want to see, seem to depend on our location, on who parents are, who they aren't, what they did, what they didn't.
There is a lot of childhood around, anytime, anywhere, I don't think childhood needs to be frowned upon more, but considered instead. Though childhood is not, in essence, good times, because terrible parents also seem to have terrible childhood.
At least that's what I see when I combine observations from people's life story and observations from people navigating with child-protection's units. We're far from being equal, right from the belly we came from, so childhood is not the problem AND it is the problem. It's complicated.
Oh my God you took the words right out of my mouth
I laugh at guys to call themselves alphas I mean I get on the ground and I roll laughing because they have to say it out loud and they have to pretend and act and they couldn't fight the way out of a wet paper bag it's hilarious watch people that do this is just insanely funny but anyway
I agree with you with everything you said you're 100% right and I would be embarrassed if I was ever caught doing any of this crap totally embarrassed
I would rather make a fool of myself telling a stupid joke or stepping in dog s*** then acting like that it's just the way it is and some guys actually believe in the things they do and say. unreal.
You can tell I don't really care too much for too many guys and that's just because of everything you said but if I am with a friend and he starts acting like this after I get done laughing and changing my pants because I peed them because I laughed so hard
I would say to him dude knock it off if you can't be yourself don't be anybody else get the f*** away from me then I probably start laughing again
A lot of them will but then they can't blame women for their short comings. Remember it's our fault that men are the way they are, they've no control over themselves or their circumstances.
For decades feminists have been telling men that masculinity is "toxic" and medicating boys so they behave like girls in a classroom setting.
The problem is that ritalin and the other ADHD medications are amphetamines and if you pump little boys full of them they don't learn how to self-regulate.
I was put onto these medications at age 40, and quickly realised that if I took them every day I'd be in prison for homicide by 41.
The biggest problem men face in daily life is the highly toxic feminist behaviour that tells us that literally everything about masculinity is bad and we should all be beta cucks.
Unfortunately, we have thousands of years of programming that tells us to kill the beta cucks and become alphas or sigmas.
Men's mental health issues would be greatly helped by feminists shutting the fuck up about how masculinity is toxic. Obviously if taken to the extreme you get caricatures of men like Andrew Twat Tate who is toxic or fuckwits like Jake Paul who thinks he beat Mike Tyson because the scorecard said so. (Tyson won by not killing him.)
Frankly, the Harris supporters now refusing to date or mate are helping men's mental health by not breeding, so that level of fuckwittery will die out. Let men act like men. Let us blow things up, drive fast or loud depending on if you like cars or bikes. No Man actually wants to be a beta cuck.
Have you ever considered natural behaviour in human beings before start spreading arround dumb assumptions about men?
Please study a little bit more before going all in against men. You obviously don't understand man enough and you are letting yourself being blindfolded by social media and television.
Violence is not something we choose to be because we like it so much! We dont like it at all but sadly for everyone males fight eachother because it's natural male behaviour. You can see it in the animal world just as you experience it in human society.
Should there change anything?
Yes ofcourse there needs to be a change in the way violence is taking place. We should stop being violent using anything other then our fists to fight 👊🏼
A fist fight between man vs man is something that will never go away because it's inbedded in our dna! Learn to live with it because this will never change!!!
Any other ways of being violent, like man fighting woman/children is totally unacceptable. Although some woman deserve a beating aswell to be honest. But those woman are exceptions.
Man should fist fight eachother not anything else. Without using guns without stabbing eachother but this problem has a underlying issue that isn't adressed at all...
Most men these days are battling with mental health issues which society is totally ignoring. Men aren't allowed by society to discuss their mental problems and therefore they are really struggling mentally on the inside without showing it to anyone. We fight a lonely mental health problem all alone and this can create extremely violent burst outs when not adressed in time.
Please try to understand what men are dealing with before taking them all down! Because woman like you who are expecting that men deal with their own mental health issues are the root cause for this problem!
You're just another hate-driven woman generalizing an entire gender and spreading hate for half of humanity. Men and women both have their own privileges and burdens, but we should have understanding and compassion for one another instead of being divisive and throwing fuel on the gender war fire like you've done here. Your rant was full of generalizations, inaccurate assumptions and complete lack of understanding of a lot of facts. People like you suck. It was nice seeing so much support yesterday from some of GAG's ladies for international men's day. Too bad it was short lived. Now, go take another dick in your ass. I'm sure you've already had one or two today.
@purplepoppy LOL you don't know men very well if you think we don't gaf about name calling each other and tormenting each other because we are different to each other. THAT is 100% how men treat each other whether friends or not. IF there were really a problem with men they'd be physically destroying each other. Right now it's women though who are the ones bouncing their flappy chappies at men with all the misandry and toxicity trying to get men to be male girlfriends as partners for them. Men are just not gaf any more and focusing on themselves and what life can give them now there are so few options for them to engage in wrt relationships, families and marriage.
As far as I came to understand the human nature, for sure there's an evident lack of mental maturity everywhere, as well in women as men, but probably a more in men, because women are often forced to grow up mentally when they realize being able to have children with the need to be taken care of.
Typical stereo typed male behaviour features are actually completely outdated in a modern well organized society. Well, outside the army I guess... Time to grow up folks ;0)
Only if women quit treating us ATMs and blaming us for us for all of the worlds problems. And they need to quit expecting to marry a rich guy and that it will solve all their problems. Also let me have their hobbies. It helps us keep sane. And the last thing, there are plenty of good men out there and we are called geeks, dorks and nerds and we love and respect women a whole lot.
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Anonymous
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the irony is all these men acting like children are all online having TikTok meltdowns after Trump's victory alongside whining feminists acting like children too
there's your White Dudes for Harris getting offended on behalf of feminists lmao
I guess the positivity of International Men's Day on GAG was too much for you to handle and you felt the need to keep your stupid gender war going
Well yeah, most of men and women's problems would go away if they just chose to handle things better and stopped being childish.
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Anonymous
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I feel sorry for some men, but not for those who hold women responsible for all of their problems. They don't seem to comprehend that they won't see anything right in their lives if they keep that perspective.
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Anonymous
(36-45)
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If men started acting like men again, women would start acting like women again. And society could recover. But we'll just keep declining though. As long as males never learn to be masculine and responsible, we'll just keep falling apart.
You can learn to workout, get sunlight, stop eating garbage and stop using drugs and alcohol. Then your hormones go through the roof. Plus, you can still learn some stuff about being masculine. But not from Andrew Tate or something.
Okay maybe that was a bad example. I was just trying to say that the phony alpha stuff that circulates online. Even when the core concept is good, dudes always fuck up the interpretation and execution.
If men got off social media, and stopped listening to red pill horseshit, things would really improve for them.
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Anonymous
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There has been a systematic assault on men since the 1800s. If you can't see that you're either uninformed or just stupid and not worth having a serious conversation with. The fact is our food and water has been tampered with with the intent on lowering IQ and testosterone, the two things men need most. If you think this is a crazy conspiracy theory, then ok, consider yourself as good as dead. Because your enemy wants you dead.
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