Why do guys always show off their exes to me?

[Anonymous]

I just asked a similar question a few minutes ago but he just added more details that reminded me of the other men who tried to tell me how good looking their exes are. I’m just like why? Their exes look always better or similar to me but in a better position than me le that’s how I feel because I have depression right now. Why are they trying to por me down so bad? It’s like they flirt but they also have to show me of their exes

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'm of the opinion that there is a lot of women out there that go wild for men that can get pussy. It's actually the main reason I don't wear a wedding ring, because they see that and then start trying to seduce me... I leave it off and they treat me like a creepy pedo that they have no interest in, which I actually prefer if that makes sense. The second reason is weight lifting... that fucking ring hurts with heavy weights.

Anyways, I bet that's why... those dudes are trying to impress you. Like "Hey look at all this pussy I was able to get." I take it you're not impressed or because of the depression, you're taking it as a slam against you.

[Loki97]

Some guys blindly enjoy showing their value in that way. They don’t mean anything bad by it however if you have insecurities then you might be dating above your league.

[Loki97]

Or maybe I’m thinking from an old mindset and it’s seriously one of those red flag traits however from what I can tell that’s the mindset behind theme. I suppose you could call it narcissistic.

[WhitneySnow]

If they were so great they wouldn’t have lost their ex. Don’t feel bad.

[Kateismee949]

To try and make you jealous. But it really is a glimpse into their own level of maturity, or lack there-of as well as their own lack of confidence. If a guy is confident, grounded, and mature, he’ll never resort to these types of things. His confidence (not arrogance) and stoicism (as my dad would say) will usually be the first sign he’s a good strong guy.

[JohnnyB123321]

Girls do that too. I don’t even mention my exs but girls always seem to tell stories about theirs like if the first date. Like, ok, you are obviously not down with that relationship yet. That pretty much kills all my interest in a girl.

[In_Trance]

They're douchebags
Why do you talk to douchebags?

[Danny_dan92]

You’re picking the wrong guys

[Xoirwinkan]

Find better guys, that sounds weird.

[Crazzyyworld]

Because u r interested in his money

[Sofie01]

Probably to make you jealous or it’s a flex.