Girls, what's something guys do that causes you to lose interest?

[lightbulb27]

[Finchie40]

Breaking the trust that you both agreed upon , pointing fingers at her before pointing fingers at
Yourself first , constantly lying to her and never taking accountability for your selfish actions , pretty much the same Reason guys’ lose interest in girls’ and break up. For a relationship to last both partners’ have to choose each other and remove selfishness for each other , by wearing each others’ shoes before making decisions , being honest with each other and respecting each other. Understanding you can’t always be right and they are wrong , Relationships are all about giving and receiving , if you constantly give without receiving your relationship will probably not last , why communication is important , if something is wrong you try to fix it together and not run to someone else to try to save you. The only time partners’ should walk away from each other is if physical abuse is occurring , or infidelity is occurring , mental abuse as well if the relationship is one sided , meaning the relationship is only based around one person and not both of you , A good relationship is partnership you should both be a team against the world. Working together you both should be each others’ top priority over everyone else , if you are not your partners’ top priority , you are best to walk the other way because they are using you

[lightbulb27]

you've learned a lot, good list! Correct!

[Finchie40]

Thanks man , unfortunately I learned the long hard way , so if I can help someone else out , so they don’t suffer and struggle and experience the things I did , I feel Idid a good deed lol. What I know now is something I wish I knew back then. We aren’t taught how to handle relationships, we just learn from what we experienced and witnessed from other peoples’ relationships, mainly are parents’ so learning how to remove selfishness is hard for so many people to do , also taking accountability for their own selfish actions is hard to accept as well. Because sadly most people can’t accept they were wrong , it’s always someone else’s’ fault but never their own. Having that selfish mindset is going to make your relationships end in disaster. We all have selfishness inside of ourselves , so learning to remove that selfishness is not easy to do. You can’t expect your partner to remove it for you, if you can’t remove it for them. And sadly that’s why so many relationships fail and people end up single again and again and again. We aren’t perfect people , no one is perfect , so we all made mistakes one way or another , so learning from those mistakes will help you see things differently and help you understand why your partner is upset and angry at you instead of just defending yourself and saying well you did this and you did that , so this is why I did this , basically making excuses for your own selfish behavior instead of just listening to what your partner is upset about. So instead of blaming your partner and pointing fingers back at them , point fingers at yourself first , before opening your mouth , whether they are right or wrong about arguing with you , listen to them instead of immediately preparing to defend yourself Learn to use the word I instead of you , when it comes down to arguing and you will see a big difference when it comes to arguing with your partner , The word you is just going to make your partner feel like you aren’t listening to them

[lightbulb27]

Yes, that's why I ended up out here, to learn and pass on what I learned. You'll be able to tune into others with similar issues quickly, it's deep emotional learning. Pain does that.
All wisdom of life...
Gets to next stage of life as new doors open...

[Unit1]

Not having social media. Ask me how I know.

[petitedollbabee]

Refer to women as females, refer to themselves as an “alpha male”, harp on about any -phobic nonsense, check out other women in front of me, jump straight to sexual conversation before even saying hello, being egotistical and only talking about themself.

[lightbulb27]

makes sense other than the female part. is that derogatory? is male an acceptable term?

[petitedollbabee]

There’s nothing wrong with referring to women as females when you’re talking biology. But I’m talking about guys who call women females in a derogatory way, as if we are ‘less than’ men. Incels tend to do it.

[lightbulb27]

I see. I tend to think of it as "they are different". An acknowledgement. It could be said in a demeaning way though.

[Aib215]

What the fuck is an Incel?

[petitedollbabee]

@Aib215 Look it up.

[thatgirl2000]

I agree, with all of this. And the ones that don't get why calling women females is degrading aren't men they're boys. female and male are adjectives primarily.

[bobalife]

Lies
Inconsistency
Playas
Not matching up words with actions
Treat others poorly
Disrespecting me and/or other women
Wandering eyes

[KtownSlapps]

Ohhhh where do I begin... lol
1. Check out other females in front of me
2. Treat me differently in front of their friends or other women.
3. Act clingy right away
4. Lie

[lightbulb27]

Good ones!

[EmmaMary]

Being a self conceited, arrogant and egotistical pathetic lowlife.

[es20490446e]

[MisfitsLover92]

An insulting, rude attitude and acting like you are better than everyone.

[Sabrina_Caleri]

When they claim to be "nice guys" like its not the bare minimum.

[Founding_Daddy]

@Sabrina_Caleri May I ask you for some advice and support?

[Sabrina_Caleri]

@Founding_Daddy what do you mean?

[Founding_Daddy]

I need some advice on some sexuality issues :(
follow me if its okay

[Sabrina_Caleri]

And why are you asking me? You should talk to someone you know

[Founding_Daddy]

needed female opinions

[Sabrina_Caleri]

There are other females that answeres this question, why me?

[Founding_Daddy]

its okay :)
I've picked others too
Just tried to reach out to people who seemed active at this moment
no worries! :)

[EmmaMary]

@Sabrina_Caleri

You will please be extremely careful and wary, won't you... I rather sense we have a troller in our midst.

[EmmaMary]

@Sabrina_Caleri

I seem to have had my post removed (probably by the asker) therefore I've sent you a follow request and hope you might just reciprocate it.

[lightbulb27]

@EmmaMary I did not remove anything... I've noticed normal posts being removed lately, don't know why. I agree with your comment and her wisdom not to engage with someone without a track record that she knows.

[EmmaMary]

@lightbulb27

I do sincerely apologise to you for my very obvious blunder/error... I actually meant to put the member's name who was trolling.

[lightbulb27]

@EmmaMary no worries

[itsannalee]

Flexing

[es20490446e]

Like this?

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[lightbulb27]

@es20490446e haha:) Orndorff was the best of the best!

[es20490446e]

A matter of attitude.

[SockFace13]

Being glued to their phone when we spend time together.

[Crazzyyworld]

Acting immature

[Anonymous]

Thoughtless, callous, arrogant.

[WowGIrl4ever]

Call or text too much

[Babygirl000989]

Basic manners stuff