How to fall out of love with a married man?

[Anonymous]

I’m a woman with 4 kids and I can’t leave this married man alone. We started off dating but he told me that he left his wife for me. He told me that it was love at first sight when he looked at me. I had to find out he was married. He told my kids that he was gonna marry me and he was in love with me. I couldn’t get why he always wouldn’t treat me right but treat her well. she's now pregnant with her first baby and they living together. I am trying to fall out of love with him. He left me when I was sleeping and left me some cookies on the table. He told me he wasn’t leaving his wife and that I should move on. I tried multiple attempts to speak with him but he won’t

[jazzy34]

Move on with your life. The feelings will go away. He was never available to you anyway. He lied from the start. Why would you want a man who lies and deceives you? That’s not a man. That’s a loser.

[Asker]

Why would he tell my kids that he’s not my short term but my long term

[jazzy34]

Again, he’s a liar and a deceiver. That’s what liars and deceivers do.

[orange_roach]

The only ones I feel sorry for is your kids, her, and her unborn child.

[Asker]

well I knew about her but she didn’t know about me

[orange_roach]

And that’s why I feel bad for her.

[Oldschool1981]

My wife dated a married guy on the side for several years. So long as there was no pregnancy, I was fine with it, especially since he had a wife and kids

[Asker]

Were the kids his?

[Oldschool1981]

yes. he was married with kids.

[Asker]

Yes this guy won’t leave his wife at all. I didn’t even know he was married

[Oldschool1981]

Yeah, he had too much to lose, which is one of the reasons I was fine with her dating him on the side

[Asker]

I been with my babydaddy for many years but it hurts when someone tell your family one thing and it’s actually another

[Oldschool1981]

Oh, I see. Yeah, there was never any deceit with my wife. She wasn't hiding anything. The married guy eventually had to break it off. My wife was heartbroken but now she has a new side guy. They've recently made it official, so I bought them a trip to Bahamas to celebrate

[Anonymous]

This is not rocket science. Just make the choice to be a good person and not to be a home wrecker.

[jahaims]

That isn't love

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆

[Asker]

What?