My boyfriend has grindr on his phone. Should I ask?

[Anonymous]

[D_Bone_Steak]

Lolz what? What the fuck? You got to be trolling or just joking... what the literal fuck?

Look lady... that's a gay hookup site. Him having it at all should be enough to know you don't have enough penis for that guy.

He's going to get AIDS and give it to you. He's gay woman. You're with a gay guy. Yet another gay guy that keeps a woman around to look straight, but he spends his time stroking off to cock and voting Democrat.

Good luck lady... he wants man buttholes and not your V-hole. Well... maybe... because the other half of them just want man penis inside their own buttholes. Either way... he probably votes Democrat. Basically he's a gay.

[slatyb]

The most famous closeted gays have all been Republican conservative Christians -- Larry Craig and Ted Haggerty to name a couple. The gay Democrats are open about it. The Republicans are in the closet and lying to their wives, constituents, or congregations.

[D_Bone_Steak]

@slatyb Nobody cares. I love how my shit posting about Dems being gay brings you out of the weeds. So many hills to fight for or die on... this gay one is the one you're choosing? Really bro?

Can you just let me shitpost about the gay Democrats without feeling like you have to point out there are gay Republicans too. Like, no shit Sherlock. Anyone with half a fucking brain knows I'm just being a shitlord.

But if it makes you happy, yes sir, those Republicans get in the closets, spit on their cocks, and then Jim Jam each other in there. The moaning and groaning coming from those closets sounds like elderly people having a gay orgy in there 😆 😂 🤣

[Horn_Hog]

@slatyb if I became a Democrat i would also pretend that I'm gay.

[AManOnTheWeb]

I could see a small handful of reasons for a straight guy to have that app, like if he was a journalist doing research for a story or a software developer who is testing the app or something, but 99.99% of men with that app on their phones are probably interested in hooking up with other guys, which is fine unless they're supposed to be in a monogamous relationship with you. Have the conversation.

[sage2021]

Since he IS YOUR boyfriend then yes, I would ask.

Even if he takes it off he can always reinstall it again without you knowing.

[Jennz6]

Ask him sweetheart if he’s interested in other men

[Jennz6]

@Sw8490a
Not you too

[coachTanthony]

If you want a MMF three some sure lol

[Jennz6]

@coachTanthony
Never, FFM

[coachTanthony]

Not if he’s on grinder

[Jessy82]

I was with my husband for 11 year's the 8th year we were together is when I found the app on his phone , I was furious I was so confused but I felt embarrassed to even ask him about it , maybe even scared to witness his reaction to me asking him about it. So I didn't for awhile until we got into a argument and I yelled "I know a lot more like your grinder gay app. He just stared at me and then goes to you went through my phone and then proceeded to tell me he didn't know it was a gay app at first and that's when he tried to delete it. I said but it's all men on there you made a whole ass profile, he continued on like it was just a accident. Time went on I came home early from work one day opened my bedroom door and there he stood in my lingerie... For real not only that there was a mirror with a dildo stuck to it. I was mortified.. so was he by the look on his face. I turned around walked out the door. I couldn't look at him or even speak to him for awhile. He later on tells me he was getting high and he was just playing around with the idea. We're not together anymore I feel like he is definitely bi sexual but is to scared to actually admit it to himself and others.. so my opinion is he is in that app by no mistake and is definitely into men. I would for sure sit down and try and figure out if he is really into woman at all or is that just his cover up to act and feel content in his life. There's nothing wrong with being gay but there's a lot wrong with being with a woman you say you love acting as if your not into men at all continue on a relationship with them knowing damn well you rather be with a man. That's wrong.

[slatyb]

Yes, you should. You do not want to be having unprotected sex with someone who is also having sex with others. He's gay or bisexual but in the closet. Straight men do not install Grindr. Get this resolved before you invest any more time in this relationship. Don't be like my 19 year old cousin who married a 29 year old gay man and spent 30 years before figuring it out.

[236color]

No, you should bail. Grindr is a gay hook up app. It indicates one or both of two things. #1 Your boyfriend is or is at least thinking about having sex with men. #2 He is or is thinking about being unfaithful to you. Staying with him sounds like a losing proposition.

[Roldrake]

NO do not ask, not if you want to stay happy and together. My girlfriend and I have a strict policy where she can ask me anything EXCEPT about my Cocaine and Prostitute fetish and she is cool with that because it's only like a once every couple months thing.

[Unit1]

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Your boyfriend must be bisexual.

I would expect pinks to scream "that's cheating!". Where? I don't see (yet).

You can surely ask your boyfriend about it.

[Nothingfree]

If it is something new too you yes. If you already knew he was gay or into men, yes. But it comes down to if you are okay with him being with another man while y'all are together. If your not okay and you look at it as cheating then of course you should ask.

[EastCoastDude]

Yes ask. Is your boyfriend bisexual? I am currently talking to a female and I have photos of naked men and women on m phone.

instead of one dude you can have two dudes

[Nikki1989]

You would be surprised what men do with their phones.

[Asker]

whatchu mean?

[Anonymous]

No, just let him be, there's nothing wrong with him being into sandwiches and sharing that love with others.

https://youtu.be/E7AqG4L63jc?si=yIUZhNvnVBB-73nN

[Anonymous]

Definitely. You don't know what STD's he could be picking up from them if you're having sex with him still, not to mention if he's bi or gay. You kinda need to know about that.

[HungTexan]

Since GRINDR is casting app for the LGBTQ community, I think it’s work asking him about it. Not judging, but you should know if he’s into anything other than a heterosexual relationship.

[fantasticass]

Yes.. obviously he's looking at other women. You need a new boyfriend. Leave him.

[conanbdetective]

It's not an easy conversation to have but you should.

[Drumlin2001]

Any other dating apps? Would seem a conversation is needed

[glennos89]

Then he must be gay because no straight guys would even consider downloading this app

[Anonymous]

Maybe work on yourself if you don't trust partners?

[Anonymous]

Your boyfriend likes men sweetie.

[Asker]

that’s what i’m thinking

[LeannaLuvsu]

It may be prudent to ask some questions.

[WhitneySnow]

You should ask

[WhitneySnow]

That bothers me not so much cause it’s a gay app as because it’s a hookup app

[Staximus]

Leave him immediately unless you want std's

[Summeroflove]

Uhhhh yeah

[Asker]

grinder is for gay sex.

[Summeroflove]

I know what it’s for you should probably dump

[kaucky1]

It might be gay dating site

[Anonymous]

I think it would be sensible to ask

[Joshydavid25]

Uuh.. Yeah..

[LiamJHayden]

Yes.

[jahaims]

Lmfao

[In_Trance]

How do you know?

[Jmmmfi4]

Uh yes