My guy friend needs advice… How does he handle a woman he hasn’t spoken to since 2023? what should he do?

[Anonymous]

Unstable woman

What to do when she quit her job in education…tags me in post insulting him on different platforms.. they talked briefly and he ghosted her after a date and called her unstable and told her I didn’t want to sleep with her bc she would be “crazier “… I told him that wasn’t nice to say if she liked you

She did tell him in the beginning that she wasn’t trying to get into anything serious to protect her mental and emotional being

He’s just been silent about it the whole time and doesn’t engage

Men what would you do in this situation

Stay silent in this matter and hope it goes away

Reach out to her to apologize or try to fix it

Firmly tell her to go away or be rude

Something else

[Flower7]

I am not a man but…both of you should block her on everything.

[Asker]

She hasn’t bothered me

[Flower7]

Sounded like you said she tagged you online.

[Asker]

No him but she commented on mutual friends about him

[Flower7]

Ok well HE should definitely block. Blocking is a lot better than just ignoring.

[Asker]

Ik I told him. I don’t understand… he doesn’t block or do anything.. it’s been a couple months…

[Flower7]

Maybe he secretly likes the attention?

[Asker]

Why would he enjoy being called gay , a liar and dl… and other things…

[Asker]

She goes off

[Flower7]

Blocking is so easy. If he refuses to do that, there must be a reason.

[Asker]

It really is… I don’t understand why… maybe keeping tabs on what she does or says next? Monitoring?

I mean he told me he didn’t even give her his social media and she’s trying to find people he’s connected to.. to “out” him or put him on blast.. insult..

I don’t know the reason but I doubt it has anything to do with care

[RandomUser1000]

Probably tell her to go away. Not being interested or something like that.