If a woman is going out of way to “harass” and insult a guy on social media what is keeping him from blocking her?

[Anonymous]

She finds people he’s connected follows and comments things about him under their page mind you she doesn’t know them… she does it on different social media platforms

He did hurt her feelings after they dated and he ghosted her…

There’s a lot of elements to the story

He cares

He doesn’t care

He likes the attention

Monitoring her moves

[Screenwriter]

Something perverse about him not simply blocking her. I don't understand it. Must be doing something for him. But, I can't figure it.

[Asker]

I don’t understand either

[Asker]

Maybe he wants me to come out for him

[ProbablyClueless]

He's probably worried that blocking her would make her behavior worse.

[Asker]

Worse how?

[ProbablyClueless]

She might get more aggressive with him in person or attack his reputation more.

I had a female bully in K-12 who got a lot more abusive once I stopped responding to her.

[Asker]

No she doesn’t plan on seeing him anywhere

[ProbablyClueless]

She doesn't have to plan anything. If she's genuinely trying to be abusive and cause problems, she'll take any chance she get.

You have to remember that he can't read that woman's mind.

[Asker]

Maybe she’s helping him come out or he’s a narcissist that enjoys the attention

[ProbablyClueless]

That certainly could be! I wouldn't be able to say without knowing the people involved.

[Asker]

What could be?

[ProbablyClueless]

What you just said. It might be the case that he's a narcissist or that she's trying to help him come out. I just don't know.

[Asker]

I hate him… it’s me

[ProbablyClueless]

I figured. Why do you hate him?

[Asker]

Because he just discarded me and said hurtful things… and I didn’t know he was attracted to transgender women

[Asker]

I just hate that he hates me so much that he can’t just ease how I feel. That he can’t just reach out knowing I’m still hurting.. I just miss him so much. I want him to love me. I hate that he made me feel so inadequate

[Asker]

For him to mention that I’m “unstable “ and he knows I’m hurt … I’ll never understand why he would do that to me

[Asker]

It’s not his job I get it but I feel so affected by his actions for 2 years… I quit my job as a teacher… he ruined my life