Guys, should I be offended?

[Anonymous]

Okay so the guy I’m seeing calls me daddy’s bitch. I asked him about it and he was like yea cause I’m his bitch. When I mention marriage or what I want my ring to look like he sends kissy faces and smiley faces or in person just smiles big as hell at me. He says I’m his exact type. Even talked moving in together. So obviously we thinking long term here but is daddy’s bitch something I should be concerned about? He’s also 14 years older than me.

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For context, I left out that it’s a sex thing. He doesn’t just randomly call me that

[Ironic_Method]

Coming from someone that has been in BDSM and using degrading language for many years... you should be offended. Generally you talk to your partner about that kind of thing first. I would definitely stand up for yourself now before he assumes he can do whatever he wants, even if it's just a sex thing (for now).

[Staximus]

The guy sounds like a piece of shit. I don't know why you would want to marry that kind of guy unless you like being controlled, degraded, and treated like shit. Maybe you should pull your head out of your ass and get away from this guy.

[Anonymous]

"Daddy" because he's older.
"Bitch" is pretty common. I call my girlfriend "sexy bitch" or "bitch" any time in private. At the beginning she protested, but now she's used and she doesn't care. Guys like to pretend to be dominant with their girlfriend. You'll gat used. Don't worry.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I guess if you don't care being treated like that, sounds like he's brainwashed by pornography tho

[Avicenna]

Does he treat everyone like that?

[Anonymous]

No, you should not.