Guys, Was I being mean?

[Anonymous]

A guy online, age;50 (plus) dmed me at a online dating site, I named myself Poison because why not, so the guy was like Hi baby let me taste some of your poison to which I replied you don't need any you're 50 (plus) now it won't be long till it's your time to taste death. He got mad, cussed me out then blocked me!. What's wrong with what I said though because we are all mortal soon, we are all will taste death, also I did answer his question yeah, yes it's a bit of dark humor as well may be he didn't get it, anyways though was I wrong?

mean?

[wolfunknown]

If you had mentioned your age and he still decided to message you, he is a creep. But you could have taken a different approach by just ignoring him. Haha

[Asker]

i meanted i'm 22! he saw my age! 😹😹😹😹

[Asker]

mentioned

[wolfunknown]

Online dating sites are filled with creepy old dudes. My friends have mentioned about such incidents too. I wonder how they live with themselves.

I'm 24 and if I get a message from even a 17-18yo I ignore it as it just feels wrong

[Asker]

same i got messaged by 18-20 year old's and it feels wrong to date men at that age for me i prefer
23-30, may be 32. nothing over those ages though... I'm off the dating sites it was like banging my head on a brick wall, never found what i wanted at all on there.

[wolfunknown]

Yes I have lately stopped using them as well, they are either filled with underaged or over aged people.

[BarryLiverstone]

Dating sites are a waste of time. Sounds like you both were in the wrong. Do you feel guilty?

[Asker]

Nope he got to cuss me out, he'll be okay.

[BarryLiverstone]

Sure he’ll be ok, he will die. I’m sure he wasn’t the only guy to react in a negative way was he?

[Asker]

not at all, i am even off dating sites for good. i would rather be alone than look for love on those apps, never again!!!

[BarryLiverstone]

Then you learned and are making a wise choice. Too many fake people afraid to be real and offensive if their opinions are strong. At least if you are single you can do what you want

[Asker]

exactly @barryliverstone, exactly and thanks!

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome. Is now when I curse you out or does that come later ;). Don’t wanna disappoint your streak :)

[RACSKC0B]

Nope.
Why don't you ask if he was being creepy, abs see what people say?

[Asker]

ahhh oh well welp!

[Anonymous]

Yeah you were kind of shitty.

He was sleazy and used a dumb pick up line

and you responded by what, reminding him of his impending mortality?

Because THAT certainly doesn’t make people want to go fuck and live it up.

There were any number of ways you could have responded, and you chose to be shitty. Sounds like you enjoy that kind of thing though.

[Asker]

Why are you only saying I'm wrong in this situation, he's 50 plus messaging a 22 year old and using a horrible sort of creepy pick up line and he called me baby... He too was in the wrong!, I am not going to sit her and pretend like I am a perfect princess no i'm not I could have handeled that situation better by not responding and by blocking him, I didn't have to respond disrespectfully, and him and other dudes who ask girls out horribly will never have to worry about my "shitty" combacks in your words because

[Asker]

never have to worry about my "shitty" comebacks because I left the Hell hole of online dating, It's making me an angry woman and i'm only 22, I barely lived life I cannot afford to be letting myself poison my soul with anger, and I care about my mental well being as well, so I will never ever do something like this ever in my life again! and thanks.

[Asker]

And no i hate exhibiting jerk like behavior towards others but sometimes life and mostly people online will push you to be a jerk!. so i will remove myself from online so i can regain my sanity and be a better woman!