Guys, Help me. Did I offend him?

[Anonymous]

I've been close to this guy for a week.

He is talkative in real life.
But really bad at texting.
His text is honestly super short, a few words only. His text often leaves me in confusion and i almost go crazy bcoz it will cause lots of misunderstandings. There have been a few miscommunication bcoz of that. And i talked to him. And he is sorry about that.

And then, one day, we text again.
And he said that my English is so good.

And i said "Noo.. my English is just ok. U can even speak English much faster than me. But when it comes to texting, u make me confused haha.. so i have to learn to be patient".

And then he said "yeah im poor at texting. Sorry.."

I said "its okay.. i want to learn and understand ur style. Ur texting style is new for me"

And then he is kinda silent after that..

Omg did i offend him?
Maybe i shouldn't have said that.

It happens 30 minutes ago.
I hope he is not turned off by me.

[pumaOH24]

I doubt you offended him.
He can speak English fast but can’t type it out fast?
Why doesn’t he use the voice to text features then?

[Asker]

He is a man with a few words on texts. Write something informative, short. Treat texting as a tool for simple communication He is like that from the very beginning. He is the type who speaks a lot in real life. Very normal. But sucks at texting. Im afraid i offend him. He had sex before, and i think he might be bored of me.

[outside_Toronto]

Juesus…. calm down. It's been 30 minutes

[Asker]

Its been 4 hours.
And he didn't text me... i know it sounds nagging and overthinking.

But i do think he lost interest.
He is in china now.
Im in my country.

Thats what i really think, he is bored already

[outside_Toronto]

You could be right. At least you have nothing invested; easy to walk away

[Asker]

I had sex with him, 4x, during his stay in my city. No, not that shallow. We did explore city together all day for days. Were attracted to each other. So... im curious.. it would be very sad for me if after all the things has happened, it would end... just like that.. its gonna be sad. Im just saying.

[outside_Toronto]

Live and learn. I suspect he'll walk away from this and never look back.

[Asker]

Yeah..
Gosh. Men are really different with women.
Gosh. 😐

[outside_Toronto]

Yes but keep in mind, not all men are like this. Just as some women are in fact like this too.

[Asker]

I want to believe so.