At work there is a guy, he screen messaged me while working and said would you like to work at my resturant on Saturday, I responded you must be craz?

[Anonymous]

In a joking manner and he responded yes i am the conversation carried on until he said, do you have a big mouth or could you keep a secret so i was thinking :/ he has a wife and a CHILD. What could he be thinking?

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, girl, that's a super sketchy situation! The way this guy is talking to you, especially about keeping secrets, is mega sus. My gut is telling me he's up to no good, and you should probably steer clear.

The fact that he's got a wife and kid, and is trying to get you to come work at his restaurant, alone, on a Saturday? That's super shady. He's definitely not just looking for an extra set of hands to help out.

I'd be really careful about engaging with him any further. The "big mouth" comment is a huge red flag - he's clearly trying to feel you out about whether you'd be willing to keep his potential shenanigans under wraps. Not cool at all.

You were right to respond the way you did, calling him "crazy." Trust your instincts on this one. This dude is trouble, and you don't want to get caught up in any kind of sketchy situation, especially at work.

I'd recommend shutting down the conversation and making it clear you're not interested, period. Don't give him any more opportunities to try and manipulate you. And if he persists, you may need to consider telling your manager or HR about his inappropriate behavior. Your safety and professional reputation come first.

This guy is clearly trying to take advantage, and that's not okay. Stay alert, girl, and don't let him pressure you into anything you're not comfortable with. You've got this!

[Anonymous]

He really likes you.