Aitah for being sick of my husband making everything so hard needed everything to be so rigid? I am Asian sorry my English sucks?

[Reptar91]

He doesn't like me working and bitches every time I go there. He calls saying he has an emergency and the emergency is something stupid like he can't figure out how to heat up a TV dinner or he has lint on his shirt. Or he can't figure out how to get the ice cube ls to come out.

He doesn't want me riding with my cousin and insist on sitting between us because he thinks something is going on.

He doesn't want me riding with him to the store.

He throws a fit when I go to the supermarket because I spend too much.

He makes explain the item fifty times and I text him picture of where it is and what it looks like and still get the wrong thing after spent an hour explaining it to him. He spends hours at the store and comes back with nothing.

I suggested we go together. He treated me like I was five. And kept saying to me in baby voice nope you can't have that. He says we can go but if I get him mad he has the right to drive crazy because I talked to much.

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1 y

He keeps showing up when I go to the movies with friends and sitting between us. He quit doing it. But we had a huge fight because he is sure I am cheating. I am not. I hardly ever have a car. He thinks I should only be going somewhere if it's work-related.

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1 y

Like got me Velveeta instead of cheese. I know all Americans like it but I dislike it it makes my stomach hurt. I walked across the street to dollar general and got real cheese he was mad.

[SueShe]

Your husband is the jealous type of person, perhaps because of past experiences and does not trust you to be different from women he may have known in the past.

Also, Western men tend to think that Asian women are obedient and that they can order, command and boss them around like they do with slaves. As a matter of fact, a great number of men try to find Asian women to marry because no Western woman will put up with their characters and idiosyncrasies.

Some actually believe that Asian women will serve them hand and foot, will do all the work while they have their fun and will labor and be stay at home women.

Your husbands need to seek counseling because he has an unhealthy behavior and attitude. He is the type that will boss you around his lifelong if he can.

[molonski2]

Why does he have so much time to fill? In which country do you reside? He has a very Asian attitude.

[Reptar91]

He is American. i am Asian. He was nice at first. He thought I was going to be subservient and easier to deal with than an American woman because I am Asian. I found that racist. I am a lady but not a door mat.

[molonski2]

Now I understand better..
But , does this guy not work? What part of Asia are you from China?
Some of these idiot Americans see these things as their " right " , he sounds like an utter Idiot , who is incredibly insecure.

[Reptar91]

He accuses me of cheating and ask me questions like I am a child. I am an educated woman with a drivers license. So I wonder if he is the cheater. I think he goes to the store alone to meet other women. I do no say this but I want to.

[molonski2]

Im sorry but in this case he sounds like an absolute neurotic , insecure moron.
Does he not have a job to do?

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a real pain in the butt.

[Intheclouds00]

Oh fuck that shit. He trippin'

[DryGermanGuy]

Stop tolerating this insufferable manchild.

[katiesmuff]

And again tell us why you are still with him!

[glennos89]

Sounds like your relationship sucks tbh 😞