My husband is Asian but I don’t get along with Asian women?

[Anonymous]

I’m black and my husband is Chinese. I have found it hard to connect with Asian women. They seem so cold and judging me. I love my husband. I want to be liked by his family. Am I taking it personal, or is the a culture thing as to why the women are a bit cold. Some act a little robotic.

[crossdressingrihno]

Tell your husband that you want to get along better with his family and wish to learn about their culture so that you can better fit in and understand his family.

Any decent husband would either talk to his family about them being more accepting of you or would want to teach you about his culture so that way you can understand his family better (unless there's something wrong with his family that he doesn't want you getting involved with because he feels for whatever reason it could be bad for you and in which case he should just tell you that)

Point is just ask your husband to help you understand his family I'm sure he won't mind most people don't I would assume.

Also this is clearly a family thing and this is a his family thing and since this is a his family thing he's probably the best person to ask about all this because I don't think many people would know his family better than him and the other members of his family

[Asker]

They are Americanized so I don't know. His friends like me but the girl cousins seem jealous and judging like they didn’t want him to be married

[Birdlegs]

I have noticed that Asians can be very judge-y. I had an Asian ex and she always hid me from her father cuz he was pretty much just straight racist although her mother was cool with me.

[JoyGirl]

Such is the life on any interracial relationship. You either let it bother you, or you ignore it.
Try your best to stay away from the negative family members. My goodness, they really know how to play mind games, and make you feel like shi. I hate that shi, because it really hurts.
Just remember that you love him, and his family is not the one dating him, and neither is your family.
Good luck, hun! 💜

[UnknownGagsUser]

I’m Asian and myself can't even get along with my own women 😂

[Asker]

Omg lol😂

[Staximus]

You're talking about two different cultures that might as well be two different worlds. I know a black girl that lived in China for a couple years and she said it was a tough adjustment.

[Asker]

I’m in America, my husband is very Americanized

[Staximus]

Yeah, but is his family Americanized?

[Shamalien]

Yeah Asians are fking robots and I can never connect with the women either. I can have good conversation but nothing romantic... they are too cold and unexpressive! No communication!

[historectomy]

i can't say for sure but i have dated Asian women in the past and their families are really harsh so probably culture

[TheLastRhodesian]

Women are more racist than men in speed dating, and find Asian men least physically attractive.

[Birdlegs]

That’s really random

[Anonymous]

File for Divorce you're not compatible with each other