Guys, how do you feel when a girl trusts you enough to guard her drink at a party?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Wow it has really come to that. Now. . I mean in my day if anybody messed around with anybody's drink they were going to have their ass kicked and now it's come down to somebody has to say hey watch my drink for me please while I go to the bathroom or whatever that's just messed up... The way I would feel about it is I would be pissed off in the first place just because things like that happened now and it would kind of irritate me that a girl would have to ask me to watch or drink because she doesn't want anybody to mess with it and it's just wrong that a girl has to go through that but I do understand it I wouldn't feel anyway about I mean she shouldn't even have to ask me because she knows that I wouldn't allowed anything to happen anyway but it's just messed up that girls have to go through this I mean it's ridiculous our world's changing so fast

OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

I never thought about it. Not typically something people have to worry about in my circle. Gratified by the trust. Responsible for her safety. Not a big ask. The minimum a community should do for each other. Just like watching someone's phone or purse or coat. Sad that we need to do that but, it's a real concern.

jahaims · Answer

I don't feel anyway. All the females in my life would trust me because I'm trustworthy. It doesn't make me feel anything. They are following logic. I've known this male for X amount of time and he has always been solid so I trust him. It's not that deep

nawtee_me · Answer

Does that mean if she trust me while she is gone to bathroom or on the dance floor I shouldn’t put anything in her drink? lol. J/k trust is a big thing especially in relationships. If she trust you that much then I hope that trust goes both ways.

TrimmedTip · Answer

It’s a turn-on. Trust is the ultimate compliment — it says she sees me as dependable, respectful, and someone who’s got her back (and her drink). Plus, it’s a quiet kind of intimacy that feels… protective and sexy at the same time. 😉🍸🔒

Joshydavid25 · Answer

It would just mean that I was close enough to her for her to do that.. Either that she it was just some random girl that was attracted to me and was using that as an excuse to approach me.

Notherndude84 · Answer

I never thought much about it. I did catch a guy trying to slip a pill into a woman’s drink when I was tending bar a few years ago. I guess it means she trusts that you’re at least not a pathetic rapist.

Shiprex · Answer

I feel like a normal adult. Though I might sneak a sip to see what it is she's drinking (for next round knowledge).

AnonAndrew · Answer

Good. It's always nice to be trusted. :)

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Bewildered, mostly. But then, like guys, some girls are just clumsy flirters. 🤷‍♂️

Staximus · Answer

I just take guarding to drink seriously, besides that I really don't think much of it because I was a bouncer for years at bars and my job was to protect girls from shit bags like that anyway

Spencer10 · Answer

I would still feel sad she even has to worry about this...

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Trusted. Something I haven't felt in a while.

DJB72 · Answer

Disturbed that it's necessary. Honoured she asked me

Surely · Answer

No different. I wouldn’t mess with someone else’s drinks and I would watch their drinks even if I just met them.

Pudsmucker · Answer

I don't attend any parties like that anymore. But I have guarded my dates drink at parties when I was younger. I felt it was an honor.

Yannae · Answer

It's a good thing. Trust is good. Your drink shall be safe. Even if I don't like you.

Anonymous · Answer

It irritates me when people try to make me feel as if I have to do anything for them as if I owe them something. When it comes to safety that’s one thing but just dump the shit out and get a new one….. or carry it with you.

Uglygaypoorcoward94 · Answer

Honored to be entrusted with keeping her safe

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Whoa! That's some big time trust. I take that very seriously. When a girl trust like that it's normally her bestie or brother or someone she's dating

James994 · Answer

Well it shows that she feels comfortable and trusts me

msc545 · Answer

I'm not interested in being some woman's bodyguard or looking after her drinks. She's old enough to drink. She's old enough to take care of her own goddamn drink.

Intheclouds00 · Answer

That she knows my character and won't be fucking me that night. She will hook up with the guy that would probably spike her drink.

Anonymous · Answer

Amused that 1. She thinks guys are just dying to get into her knickers. 2. Not supposed at the issues she has when she doesn't even take the responsibility to guard her own drink.

Still-alive · Answer

‘Oh great an errand’ jk lol i guess id be flattered.

Pohjolan · Answer

Nothing particularly. It's not like I'd need to use drugs if I wanted to rape someone.

Finchie40 · Answer

Just means she trusts me which is a good thing

HungTexan · Answer

That’s awfully nice and a sign of trust.

retarb · Answer

I just got a new mission, hell yeah.

LiamS95 · Answer

Very beautiful shy dork please follow me

Circushowcowboy · Answer

I’d feed feel good about it. And honored

MrTaboo · Answer

excellent! she's all mine now! Bawhahahaha!

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