What does he wants? Im confused?

[Jayde21]

So I like this guy from work and we were talking for some time. he was always interested and you could feel the chemistry between us. Bu he began also to send mixed signals and asking everyone for drinks at work except me for example. (by the way i am only working there 2 days in the week for 3/4 hours, he works there fulltime as a car mechanic)

When he was at a event two weeks ago he posted it at his story and i reacted on it. We talked a bit and i said that i found it hard that i couldnt be there too. And he said “yes i found that too”. Which surprised me he would say that, but he was also bit drunk. After that he asked me if i would like to go to the movies with him, the next day. He searched some movies and i needed to choose one of them. But when we went to sleep and woke up the next day after some talking in the morning i heard he couldnt come cuz his parents wanted him to come to some party of family. Later he asked me if i could come to his house and then watch a movie. He picked me up and it was fun and nice. He was very cuddly instantly and he told me at the beginning he did not told his parents that i was coming and just said he was sick so he didn't have to go to that party and be with me. We kissed 15 min and then he told me he wanted to wait with the rest and needed to go to the toilet. He said i was a good kisser.

I asked why he didn't told his parents and he basically said he didn't know what he wanted. Because being single was nice but being with someone was nice too. He told me not to wait on him and he wanted to see where this would go. He did not texted me after for some days and I texted him said that we would be better off as colleages and have no contact after work because i felt confused. He reacted very careless but when i came at work he was overly interested, and he was fishing for compliments. He asked for drinks and did things for me. He texts me out of himself now which he never did. Its different. Like he’s trying more and be open.

[Anonymous]

He's giving you mixed signals and doesn't seem to know what he wants. He's interested enough to pursue you sometimes, but then pulls back with excuses, vague statements, and inconsistent behavior. This likely stems from immaturity, fear of commitment, or possibly just enjoying the attention without real interest in a relationship. You deserve clarity and someone who's enthusiastic about you. It's best to protect your feelings by distancing yourself, communicating your needs clearly one last time if you choose, and being prepared to walk away if he can't give you what you want.

[Nikki1989]

His behavior is all over the place. I wouldn't put up with that.