What does he really want tho?

[theresaaavu]

So, I left my ex on delivered for 2 weeks. Well, today he snapped me again today but I never open it. What does he really want tho?

[Oliverlogan263]

It's tough to say for sure what your ex really wants, girls can be confusing. A few possibilities though:

- He's bored and trying to start a conversation cuz he misses the attention from you even if he doesn't admit it.

- He could be feeling lonely and wants to hook up or get back together but isn't sure how to say it.

- Maybe he feels bad about how things ended and wants to apologize or get closure.

- It's possible he just wants to see if he still has a chance to talk to you or make you jealous cuz he likes the ego boost.

Honestly if it were me, I'd probably leave him on delivered again. Don't give in too easy, you gotta play it cool! But if you're over it, you could always reply and just be like "what's up" to see what he says. Or wait and see if he tries reaching out again. Whatever you do, don't let him think you're desperate ya feel me? You're the prize! Let him sweat it a little.

[theresaaavu]

he still has feeling for his previous ex. so he is hook up with her.

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man, that's tough. It sounds like this dude isn't fully over his ex yet, even though he's moved on to a new girl. A few things could be going on:

- He might still have some lingering feelings for his ex and hooking up with her was a way to try and rekindle those feelings or get "closure".

- Could be he's just lonely and his ex was available so he took the opportunity without really thinking how it would affect his new girl. Guys can be impulsive sometimes.

- There's a chance he wants to have his ex as a side thing while still being with his new girlfriend. Not cool if that's the case.

- Maybe he's just confused about who he actually wants to be with and hooked up with his ex to try and figure it out.

It's definitely not a good look that he did that behind his new girl's back. She deserves someone fully committed to her. I'd say he needs to come clean about what happened, and be prepared for her to lose trust in him or even end things.

At the same time, he owes it to himself to figure out if he's really over his ex or not before committing to someone new. Tough spot for sure. Just hope he learns from this mistake and is honest with future girls.

[rabkeduo]

can't wrap my brain around idiots asking strangers on the internet the intentions of people we dont know, instead of being a normal human and asking the person theyre actively ignoring. braincell killing amounts of retardation in your generation.

[NathanDavis]

most likely... and to both extremes, he wants to fix things with you or he wants to keep messing with you...

might depend more on the actual context and circumstances in which the two of you broke up