Why did he pull away from BJ?

Xper 6 Age: 46

I was trying to give my boyfriend a BJ and he pulled away from me and told me no just relax. What does that mean? Is it a typical guy thing or is it just something he’s going through and not talking about it I asked him but he wouldn’t respond. What do y’all think is the reason I’m stumped

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Xper 6 Age: 55

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I never heard of that one. Did you ask him why?

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- Booboolove69
  
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  Yes he wouldn’t explain
  
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- StevenMcGarrett
  
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  I don't know. I never heard of a guy not liking blowjobs.
  
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Dongie Follow
Guru Age: 63

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He just wasn't in the mood sounds like.

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- Booboolove69
  
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  That’s the best answer yet thank you, Homie
  
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- Dongie
  
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  Sure Boo. 😏
  
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- guyinterested
  
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  you are welcome
  
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msc545 Follow
Master Age: 39

1 y
2.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Odd as it sounds, sometimes a BJ just doesn't feel very good. We get sensitive down there just like women do sometimes and even being touched is pretty unpleasant. It doesn't last and it isn't a comment on you and there's nothing to worry about but you should go along with what he wants when he doesn't really want to be touched just like he should do for you.

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- Booboolove69
  
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  Ok I will
  
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ohsheeT Follow
Master Age: 41 , mho 62%

1 y
821 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Well what part of the day was it did he just get home from work did he feel cruddy and he would rather take a shower I mean there could be a lot of reasons maybe he didn't take a shower that day and didn't want you to put your mouth on it I'm sure there's a simple reason

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bowenw Follow
Master Age: 42

1 y
2.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

There are a few possibilities. One is he may have realized he wasn’t going to finish. He should have told you the reason so he didn’t leave you wondering.

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- Booboolove69
  
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  Yeah that makes sense
  
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HungTexan Follow
Explorer Age: 72

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I am baffled as well. If my dick is hard and I’m getting a BJ, I’m definitely not pulling way before I cum!

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- Booboolove69
  
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  No honey I was pulling on his pants to get to his dick begging him to let me give him a BJ
  That’s when he pulled away and told me to just relax
  
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ChicoFromThe305 Follow
Master Age: 25

1 y
1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

I don't think I'd be able to tell you the answer to that cause I don't know missy, a bit of communication rn wouldn't be a bad idea, maybe find the right place and time to ask him.

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- Booboolove69
  
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  Ok I will
  
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Shiprex Follow
Guru Age: 55

1 y
370 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

He could be just not in the mood but he may have other reasons for not wanting to that he may not want to make you feel bad about.

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- Booboolove69
  
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  Yeah maybe but he didn’t want to talk about it
  
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bananathunder Follow
Guru Age: 36

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He was probably about to cum and needed to calm down

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- Booboolove69
  
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  Best answer yet 🤣
  
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- bananathunder
  
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  Has to be the reason. That's the only reason I'd pull my dick out of your mouth 😛
  
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- Booboolove69
  
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  💋💋💋💋
  
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beefcakebradybatson Follow
Guru Age: 72

1 y
584 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Maybe he was nervous or doesn't like b. j. s.(Some chaps aren't into them).

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- Booboolove69
  
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  He’s liked all the other ones
  
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- beefcakebradybatson
  
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  Guess I'm wrong.
  
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Anonymous
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Maybe he is afraid that you're going to bite him.
It happened to my brother.

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- Booboolove69
  
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  I’ve never bit him before
- Opinion Owner
  
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  Ok, but maybe he had such bad experience in the past, with some other girl.
- Booboolove69
  
  1 y
  I don’t know if that’s what it is cause I’ve been giving him BJ’s for a long time
- Opinion Owner
  
  1 y
  Who knows, something must have traumatised him.
- Booboolove69
  
  1 y
  Or maybe he was distracted about something
- Opinion Owner
  
  1 y
  It's possible.
PaleDale Follow
Xper 6 Age: 30

1 y

That's REALLY strange. I (and most guys) would their head rolled back in pleasure, I couldn't even think of pulling out cause it feels so good 🍆💦

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MasterKS Follow
Guru Age: 31

1 y
464 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

You must be going too hard which might leading him to cum!

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- Booboolove69
  
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  Yeah maybe I’ll try something different
  
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guyinterested Follow
Xper 5 Age: 26

1 y

He may have got over sensitive and it was causing him discomfort.

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- Booboolove69
  
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  Ok ok
  
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Anonymous
(45 Plus)

1 y

Maybe he has a hard time getting it up or he had some action before he got home

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- Booboolove69
  
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  Oh my gosh, I don’t wanna think about the latter
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Has he ever done this before to you
  
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- Booboolove69
  
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  No never
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Maybe he had an extremely rough day or maybe he is totally exhausted. For me I would never turn that down
  
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- Booboolove69
  
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  Exhausted sounds more like it
  He does physical work all day
  
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- Booboolove69
  
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  So since he’s exhausted, what do I have to wait till he’s rested in order to offer a BJ
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Does he truly enjoy you giving him one
  
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- Booboolove69
  
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  Yes 👍
  
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dougeats Follow
Xper 7 Age: 25

1 y

Well sounds to me like he had his dipstick in someone and may still have the flavor on it. Unless you know he's not a cheater.

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Ironco Follow
Explorer Age: 54

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I'm guessing he had a bad experience in the past.
Teeth or braces maybe? Ouch

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Ariesman81 Follow
Yoda Age: 45

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At the dinner table isn't appropriate

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