Is it a red flag if a guy asked you if you or a virgin if it’s not been a day of talking?

[Anonymous]

So this guy added me from Bumble on my Instagram and we were talking for a little bit, and I found it suspicious knowing that his fake account that he added me from was a bunch of naked women. so we were talking for a little bit and everything, and then turned a little sexual because he was asking what did I think about his page and he asked if I was into that and I was like no. But at first, I asked him what does he mean? He’s like oh you know if It came down to having sex. I would use protection, but then I expressed to him that like I don’t do that and I believe in like doing it after you get married, and yeah, he respected that but then he started to ask me if I was a virgin and I was like what

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So he’s blocked at this point because y’all are right like no guy ever ask those questions especially trying to get to know somebody and like, why would you be talking to other girls and then be acting that way and be defensive

[HollyK21]

Yeaaaah that is a massive red flag. Any guy who jumps to talking about sex as soon as they can, asking for dirty pictures or can’t seem to talk about much else without it going right back around to a hookup only wants to get some.

[HollyK21]

Why wasn’t the fact that his account features a bunch of naked women not like, the biggest deal breaker? He adds you randomly for a dating app known for hookups, talked about sex on day one, like the red flags are just blazing in there air atp girl😂

[Asker]

He admitted that he was talking to other girls because my intuition was going crazy and then he got mad when I told him that he only wanted me because I was pretty and he’s like oh because I think you’re genuinely a nice person. I’m like you’re a liar.

[HollyK21]

And this is all happening within a day? You don’t find that rushed or weird?

[HollyK21]

Even within a few days is too much.

[Asker]

True that’s why no more

[HollyK21]

Good for you hun, you can do a lot better💛

[bowenw]

If he keeps asking sexual questions and you've told him to stop, it is a red flag and time to block him.

[Asker]

He got mad when i found out he was talking to other bitches and told me to watch what I said 😂😂

[bowenw]

That’s another red flag

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[ChicoFromThe305]

Sounds like a topic that shouldn't have been spoken about on the first day, seems pretty fast

[slatyb]

Yes, because if that's important to him, he's not someone you want to date.

[Anonymous]

He just wants sex

[Wise4myage]

Yes it is.