Why does my friends with benefits call and text me every day?

[Anonymous]

t’s just casual topics asking about how my day was and stuff like that. Nothing too deep. He has a scheduled Routine when to call. Text me in the morning, calls me when he’s going to work, Text me when he gets off of work, call me at night, try adding me on Snapchat.

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10 mo

My regular friends are just friends contacts me that much

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10 mo

* my regular friends and my daily life don’t even contact me that much

[northerngal]

Well when you have a friends with benefits its best to have a chat about expectations and boundaries. If this bothers you let him know. Otherwise dont over think it too much.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

He’s a FRIEND with benefits. He’s being friendly. Don’t read too much into it.

[Asker]

What does it mean if I’m the one always initiating when to meet up? He always says he wants to, but then he said it’s always up to me and that I can see him whenever I want. It’s like what the….

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

He’s heterosexual, he probably doesn’t have any male friends he can be vulnerable with because he’s emotionally stunted as a result of living in a patriarchal society. Any relationship with a woman, especially one willing to fuck him with no strings attached, is probably going to be more positively impactful than any previous friendships he’s had. He enjoys your company, if you think he wants to date you then confront it and shut it down.

[Asker]

He always says he misses hanging out with me and he wish I was waking up next to him in bed. It’s like well then why don’t you initiate and ask too. Am I wrong? I said he’s free and he can work around his schedule and that he’s practically his own boss but it’s like why don’t you ask me too

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Again, confront him instead of asking a bunch of strangers who know fuck all

[Asker]

Yassss thank you 🤣

[YourExLover69]

He is developing feelings for you babe. He loves you

[Asker]

I doubt that. I was just curious, I like him if I am obviously asking this question, but I don’t know if anyone else has been through this

[YourExLover69]

To remain in touch with you to keep using you as much a possible 😙

[Asker]

This probably sounds more accurate

[robocop666]

autistic repetition or desperation you decide

[StevenMcGarrett]

He is just being nice.

[Asker]

I do like him and he said he likes me too, but whatever I guess I’m just curious because I don’t like him

[Asker]

Sorry, I meant I do like him

[Asker]

By the way, he’s 48

[StevenMcGarrett]

Hmm, maybe he wants a relationship? If you want a relationship with him, then talk to him about it. Good luck.

[scott04sa22]

Don't read too much into it

[Pterodon]

To make sure you’ll keep fucking him for free