Which emotion he feels towards me, love or contempt?

[Anonymous]

I have a friend, he is 35 y. o I am 20 y. o.

I am secretly in love with him, I don't know if he loves me or not. But he makes fun of my feelings and when I cry, he doesn't take it seriously. He always says that I am a teenager and laughs and most of the time he calls me "little one". He laughs after telling me that I am masculine, he often makes fun of me like that in places where there are strangers. Which emotion he feels towards me, love or contempt, is there a chance that he loves me? Which one is most likely?

[Summeroflove]

This is where you’re going to have to confess your feels as hard as it is there is some reasons for this. But making fun of your feelings is NOT a good sign.

Look you went too long without saying anything he could find someone else leaving you with no closure. On the other hand if he rejects you as hard as that will be you can move on and not waste time on him.

But I also think you should move on he doesn’t sound like a good friend either the more I keep reading. Also “masculine” girls which most the time aren’t even masculine make better partners.

[Asker]

It's impossible for me to confess my love without being sure of his feelings.. so which emotion could he be feeling towards me based on what I said, which is more likely?

[Summeroflove]

Asker then you may never know but based off what you said. Maybe you just ditch him even as a friend

[Summeroflove]

It’s very possible that he has mixed feelings