How do I call him out?

[Anonymous]

How do I politely call him out on the fact he doesn’t talk to me much anymore, when he does it seems like its a chore. If he’s not interested why can’t he just say and let me move on?

[_Maya_]

I guess first question is who is "he" to you? A friend or ex or classmate or... that's the first thing I would want to know before giving specific advice. Then I would want some context around what happened when he stopped talking to you. I'd also want to know your thoughts on the matter and why you might think he did. All that said I can't really give a good answer. I would be guessing which is pretty much what you are doing by the sound of it. Now there is always a reason for people's behaviors. Whether you understand it or not is another story. Humans inherently react with reason or logic even if it isn't the same reason or logic you would think. So there is something that happened. You need to think hard and pinpoint what that is. Best of luck to you.

[Anonymous]

Why do you need to be formally told when the signs are clearly there? For closure? People don’t always give you that because they don’t want the confrontation or they just don’t care enough to do that in general. You see what’s going on and calling him out on it will only make him feel pity and maybe pick the pace up for a week then back to what’s really unraveling which is parting ways.