My partner acted like a jerk to me after he spoke with my brother?

[Anonymous]

my brother is rough when it comes to any conversation but thats just how he is, but my partner kinda gave me cold vibes after having a conversation with my brother.

i didn’t like my partner behaving like that with me so i gave him the cold vibes he gave me back. he didn’t like that at all and didn’t reply to my text and so i texted him again saying that im busy for a few days and to take care of himself and he replied the same thing back.

im not happy with him behaving with me like this and its not like im sticking up for my brother or validating his behavior.

he also has a very rude sister and i never complained anything about it nor i ever gave him bad vibes but only when he actually was sticking up for his sister and validating her bad behavior.

so now my partner isn’t talking to me and is giving me silent treatment. what should i do in this situation?

[BiHubbyFlor]

Very hard but I'd give him space and say sorry and talk.

No idea why suddenly he is acting that way. Maybe your brother said something against you?

Your brother might have hurt his feelings or made him jealous.

Men are simple maybe your brother would tell you?

Talking is the only way to get an answer.

[Asker]

i dont wana talk to him, i find his behavior irrational, his sister was very rude to me and i didn't like it but hept justifying her behavior that really turned me off and he knew that, and now just because my brother was rude to him it doesn't give him a valid reason to kick me around like that.

[BiHubbyFlor]

Nope it really does not! Yet he wants to be a baby about it. Imagine being married to that?

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Maybe he found out something about you that you were hiding from him.

[PaleDale]

Move on