Explain this guy's behavior? He was affectionate nonsexually, I pushed him away when he grabbed me too hard sexually, and he kissed me and left?

[baby6666]

[slatyb]

Explain? Why do you care? Are you still interested in him?

[baby6666]

Yeah I liked him, I can't get over it, he didn't seem like a jerk, but I could be wrong

[slatyb]

Ask him out

[baby6666]

I reached out and he didn't add me and didn't reply to my message, it was like a normal just casual friendly hello type message. I don't know why. It took me eons to say hello.

[baby6666]

I just took it as no and moved on, but I'm confused about why so I'm not sure how to fully not think about it at all.

[baby6666]

Like while we were together I think he could have gotten confused because he pulled moves on me a few times but it wasn't the moment for me so I pulled back, he maybe couldn't deal with the rejection. And when I reached out it was so neutral, I never flat out said I liked him, and so much time passed. My processing is slow and I didn't really even think about him until so much later. But when I was like "oh I think i liked him", I reached out, and nothing, I don't know why.

[baby6666]

I feel pretty stupid thinking about this at all, but I keep meeting people and not feeling the same.

[bowenw]

That is strange and disrespectful behavior. I would move on unless it is something you enjoyed.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[PaleDale]

You set boundaries. Good for you. And he was an asshole. Good that you're rid of him.

[baby6666]

I was so confused I reached out sometime later, and he never replied, still think the same?

[PaleDale]

Yeah, you totally did the right thing. This is how you find the guys who respect your feelings and the jerks who only care about what they want (like that asshole).

[baby6666]

I was so confused cause he seemed to like me, could it have been both? Could he have just thought I didn't like him or do you think it's pretty obvious it was a boundary?

[PaleDale]

A guy really shows if he likes a girl if he respects her boundaries and cares about her feelings. Actions speak louder than words.

[baby6666]

Yeah that's where I get confused, cause it seemed like he just got caught up and when he realized he was sorry and then left. He seemed pretty frazzled. He wasn't mean, he seemed apologetic.

[PaleDale]

Any guy should show that he cares about a girl by respecting the boundaries she sets.

[baby6666]

Yeah and I think that's why he left. And I even feel like it's why he didn't reply when I reached out.

[molonski2]

I like what he has done , he really made a sexual statement , and passionately acted on it.

[Avicenna]

Sounds like he wants to have sex with you

[baby6666]

Yeah that for sure, but he also seemed to like me

[In_Trance]

Maybe he was slightly autistic

[baby6666]

I thought the same and it made me like him more