How can I get a guy who talks to me every day but can’t make time to see me for months to leave me alone?

[Anonymous]

I tried blocking. I’ve tried reducing my talking my interaction help.

[MannMitAntworten]

I imagine “ghosting” would lead to the eventual outcome of him leaving you alone which you desire.

[Asker]

Yeah, and yesterday he told me I don’t wanna lose you even as a friend, but he doesn’t want a relationship with me so I wasted eight fucking months of my life with this motherfucker

[MannMitAntworten]

Don’t allow another 8 months to pass. As the saying goes, “time to bounce”. …and don’t look back.

[Asker]

I’m not. I told him you haven’t seen me in months ant I can not do this anymore then he called me a bitch and told me he hates me! Told me fuck you as well. He will not control me nor tell me I’m not ready for a relationship and need to step back and try to be friends first

[Asker]

Nope I just wasted my time like I told him was doing

[MannMitAntworten]

He took your response in a pretty butt hurt way considering his lack of effort. Yeah, just ghost moving forward as it doesn’t seem like civility is worth putting any effort into with this individual.

[Asker]

Nope. He tried to tell me he’s trying the day before. I didn’t respond cuz he’s not. Now he wants to be friends. How dare he say I don’t want to loose you even as a friend, but yet he told me prior to that he doesn’t want a relationship with me anymore. So what benefits do I have a being his friend?

[MannMitAntworten]

It is as I said, time to ghost him. Save your sanity and emotions from the turmoil. It isn’t ever going to get better. It is a hard boundary that must be put in place for your wellbeing.

[Asker]

He’s just keeping me around as an option. Fuck that. He done wasted my time

[MannMitAntworten]

That is what I am saying. Cut ties. This is learning lesson for you in better sensing how to avoid repeating meeting another time waster like him. You’ll do better next time.

[Asker]

I told him months back to stop wasting my time!

[MannMitAntworten]

If it were me, I would cease responding. Eventually he’ll give up.

[Asker]

I have no intentions of responding! I told Gil don’t be suprised if I stop responding yet again.

[MannMitAntworten]

Make it forever with Gil this time. You will be at peace.

[Asker]

Yep it’s forever

[MannMitAntworten]

Wise move. There is a better option for You.

[Asker]

He also said I scare him.