I really don't know what to do. I like this guy, but he doesn't seem able to fully commit. ..here's my story
I know him for 6 months. we didn't date too much in the first 3 months. we did see each other, but one or twice a month. we also talked on the phone, but not so often to say we are in a relationship. then I decided to be warmer and he started to chase me more. usually he was (and it is) the one who initiate the communication. I am calling him, of course, but like one or twice a week. (when he calls or when we see each other I am very funny, warm and supportive about his problems).
my problem is that in December we had sex and everything was fine after. after that he started to call me almost every single day. for new years eve he invited me to the party with his friends, I met his close friends, he also invited me on his birthday party.
I feel he cares about me, but I also have the feeling he can't commit. I'm saying this cause even he comes every day in my city for his business (he lives about 20 minutes by car from my city) he prefers to meet his friends than me. I didn't see him for 11 days, but we talk almost every single day on the phone (he is the one who call more)...
I have no idea what is going on in his mind and I don't know what should I do. for one and a half year he broke up with his girlfriend he was together for 11 years. I know she was terribly jealous and was nagging him all the time. I am not this way...
maybe he is scared...that's why I don't want to be pushy...but I start to be frustrated cause I am thinking he doesn't care that much if I am there or not, even I met a part of his family (his sister, brother in law, his cousin). I've also started to think moving on...
what should I do to change this?
I know him for 6 months. we didn't date too much in the first 3 months. we did see each other, but one or twice a month. we also talked on the phone, but not so often to say we are in a relationship. then I decided to be warmer and he started to chase me more. usually he was (and it is) the one who initiate the communication. I am calling him, of course, but like one or twice a week. (when he calls or when we see each other I am very funny, warm and supportive about his problems).
my problem is that in December we had sex and everything was fine after. after that he started to call me almost every single day. for new years eve he invited me to the party with his friends, I met his close friends, he also invited me on his birthday party.
I feel he cares about me, but I also have the feeling he can't commit. I'm saying this cause even he comes every day in my city for his business (he lives about 20 minutes by car from my city) he prefers to meet his friends than me. I didn't see him for 11 days, but we talk almost every single day on the phone (he is the one who call more)...
I have no idea what is going on in his mind and I don't know what should I do. for one and a half year he broke up with his girlfriend he was together for 11 years. I know she was terribly jealous and was nagging him all the time. I am not this way...
maybe he is scared...that's why I don't want to be pushy...but I start to be frustrated cause I am thinking he doesn't care that much if I am there or not, even I met a part of his family (his sister, brother in law, his cousin). I've also started to think moving on...
what should I do to change this?
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