Guy best friend thinks I'm desperate to talk to other guys and said its weird?

So was talking to my guy best friend that another guy that I'm talking to is coming to visit me (both guys are in their 40s I'm in my 20s) my guy friend said I sounded desperate to talk to other guys and said its weird did try to explain to him that I wasn't looking for a relationship with the other guys just want to be friends nothing else I don't know if he's jealous or that I am actually desperate and I'm not realizing it

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Now he thinks I'm seeking out random people to talk to on websites and that it's creepy
Guy best friend thinks I'm desperate to talk to other guys and said its weird?
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